My opinion is wait. Theres no rush. Expirence your 21st birthday, enjoy those halloween partys, those bar nights, and random bonfire fights. Some people will say they would rather be with their kids but for some of us sometimes I miss having a life outside of being a mom. π i do love my kids and love every minute but sometimes I wish I could hangout with my friends and be the young adult I am . No way saying I regret being a mom because thats all I am, but for your sake live life to the fullest as much as possible before rushing it. It dosent fix relationships and it sure dont fix financial issues.π