Crazy to think all these years I was made to feel that pursuing my dream means I am a bad partner because I have to put so much time and effort into my career. I been told I act like a man, Iām not feminine enough and being a good woman means sacrificing her happiness over others. I came across people who wanted to crush my dreams & mentally abuse me to the point I felt like giving up. A partner should uplift you, marriage is a life time partnership where both of you should grow individually and come together to celebrate your success, be there for each other and be each other best friends. I am thankful for a partner who wonāt dim my light, be jealous of me or expect me to be a ātraditional bengali bouā I love my husband and in laws for being my biggest supportersš¤ Ps. I am not cryingggg :((( I am exactly where I am but I miss my bestfriend, long distance is going to be hard š„ŗ