we didn’t grow up celebrating the holidays the way i saw on TV sitcoms. my mother didn’t bake cookies, and we didn’t drink coquito. we didn’t decorate a tree or put up colorful lights. chyle, i didn’t even know what a parranda was until I was well into my 20s. my mother, who was essentially estranged from her family, didn’t have any traditions to pass down. so christmas and every damn holiday were like tuesdays and thursdays—we just got through them. the saving grace was that we got through them together. but what was constant in our house was music, and by default, christmas songs were in the background. songs like RUN DMC’s “christmas in hollis,” new edition’s “it’s christmas (all over the world) and alexander o’neal’s “my gift to you.” “my gift to you” is the title track from alexander o’neal’s first and only christmas album released in november 1988. by the late 1980s, o’neal was an established star in R&B with hits like “fake,” “criticize,” and the timeless duet, “saturday love”with cherrelle. written and produced by o’neal’s longtime collaborators jimmy jam & terry lewis, “my gift to you” is a slow-burning christmas ballad that centers on love, gratitude, and emotional connection while highlighting every reason why alexander o’neal is national treasure. while not officially released as a single, “my gift to you” garnered extensive rotation at R&B radio and remains a holiday fixture.
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