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Who you choose to marry matters | Part 2 Some people marry to have a spouse. Others marry because they’re excited to become one. There’s a difference. Choose wisely.  Praying this is the year you attract a partner who truly loves being one. #marriageadvice #marriagetips #marriagegoals #marriagequotes #marriage
Constant rejection in a marriage, IF your husband is loving, loyal, and committed, can really take a toll on his emotional well-being and the overall connection you share. I’ve seen it firsthand—when a husband is consistently rejected, despite offering love, affection, and effort, it can make him feel unimportant, undesirable, or like he’s not enough.  Over time, these feelings can chip away at his self-esteem, and he might begin to question his worth in the relationship. It’s heartbreaking because, as this happens, he starts distancing himself emotionally, which only creates more space between you both. If your husband feels rejected, it might be because there are other things affecting your desire for intimacy. Sometimes, it’s an emotional disconnect—when you feel like you’re not truly connecting with him, it can be harder to feel open to physical intimacy.  I’ve learned that prioritizing quality time together and really focusing on nurturing that emotional bond can help bring back the closeness. Stress, fatigue, or even hormonal changes can also play a big role in reducing desire, and it’s important to manage those together—through rest, self-care, and honest communication.  And let’s be real, when intimacy starts to feel routine, it’s easy to lose interest. Sometimes you need to shake things up—try new experiences, surprise each other with spontaneous romantic gestures, and keep things exciting. For those of you who might feel like emotional intimacy is lacking in your marriage, I truly recommend downloading the Ultimate Intimacy App or listening to our podcast.  I’ve found that these resources have helped my husband and I connect on a deeper level. The app has hundreds of conversation starters, expert articles, love quizzes, and more to help reignite that emotional connection.  Whether you’re just starting out or looking for ways to strengthen your bond, there’s something for every couple wanting to grow together emotionally and intimately. #Marriage #marriagetips #romance #marriageapp #ultimateintimacyapp #marriagechallenge #happymarriage #marriagegoals #relationshipadvice #marriagequotes #marriagepodcast #intimacytips #ultimateintimacy #husbandsneedsmatter
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Constant rejection in a marriage, IF your husband is loving, loyal, and committed, can really take a toll on his emotional well-being and the overall connection you share. I’ve seen it firsthand—when a husband is consistently rejected, despite offering love, affection, and effort, it can make him feel unimportant, undesirable, or like he’s not enough. Over time, these feelings can chip away at his self-esteem, and he might begin to question his worth in the relationship. It’s heartbreaking because, as this happens, he starts distancing himself emotionally, which only creates more space between you both. If your husband feels rejected, it might be because there are other things affecting your desire for intimacy. Sometimes, it’s an emotional disconnect—when you feel like you’re not truly connecting with him, it can be harder to feel open to physical intimacy. I’ve learned that prioritizing quality time together and really focusing on nurturing that emotional bond can help bring back the closeness. Stress, fatigue, or even hormonal changes can also play a big role in reducing desire, and it’s important to manage those together—through rest, self-care, and honest communication. And let’s be real, when intimacy starts to feel routine, it’s easy to lose interest. Sometimes you need to shake things up—try new experiences, surprise each other with spontaneous romantic gestures, and keep things exciting. For those of you who might feel like emotional intimacy is lacking in your marriage, I truly recommend downloading the Ultimate Intimacy App or listening to our podcast. I’ve found that these resources have helped my husband and I connect on a deeper level. The app has hundreds of conversation starters, expert articles, love quizzes, and more to help reignite that emotional connection. Whether you’re just starting out or looking for ways to strengthen your bond, there’s something for every couple wanting to grow together emotionally and intimately. #Marriage #marriagetips #romance #marriageapp #ultimateintimacyapp #marriagechallenge #happymarriage #marriagegoals #relationshipadvice #marriagequotes #marriagepodcast #intimacytips #ultimateintimacy #husbandsneedsmatter
Grab our FREE couples goal-setting resource to help you set some goals together with intimacy, communication, finances and more & it will help you discuss these topics! Link in bio 🙌 A thriving marriage doesn’t happen by accident; it’s built with intention, love, and mutual effort. Here is what each of these goals look like:  1. Take turns initiating intimate time AND planning dates. Fun dates. When both spouses put effort into creating fun, romantic, or adventurous experiences, it keeps the relationship exciting and balanced. This means each person initiates being intimate once a week, so two times minimum a week IF you want a passionate marriage 🙌 Alternating who takes the lead prevents either person from feeling burdened and shows that your marriage is a priority. Remember, date night doesn’t have to be out of the house—it’s about intention. Find 50 at-home date ideas in our bio link. 2. Never raise your voice at each other! Disagreements happen, but staying calm and respectful prevents conflict from eroding love and trust. This also sets a positive example for your kids by showing them how to handle disagreements with grace. You can be mad and still be gentle, it is a form of maturity. Great goal to work on.  3. Put your marriage before your kids. When kids see their parents connected, loving, and respectful, they grow up with a model of healthy relationships. Prioritizing your marriage teaches them the value of love and partnership. This is the best gift you can give your kids. 🎁 4. Get healthy together. Exercise, eat well, and support each other physically and mentally. It is part of marriage commitment to take care of yourself and stay attractive.  5. Live within your means. Financial stress impacts intimacy. Set money-saving goals together and cook at home more to save money while staying healthier. Get out of debt as fast as you can, this takes both people working together.  2025 is the perfect time to focus on these goals. By committing to these changes, you’ll strengthen your emotional and intimate connection and lay a foundation of love, security, and joy for your whole family.  #Marriage #marriagetips #intimacytips #husbandsneedsmatter #marriagechallenge #relationshipadvice #loveandmarriage #marriagequotes #ultimateintimacy #marriagechallenges #relationshiptip #intimatemarriage #marriagegifts #marriageapp #relationshiptips #goals #marriagegoals #goals2025
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Grab our FREE couples goal-setting resource to help you set some goals together with intimacy, communication, finances and more & it will help you discuss these topics! Link in bio 🙌 A thriving marriage doesn’t happen by accident; it’s built with intention, love, and mutual effort. Here is what each of these goals look like: 1. Take turns initiating intimate time AND planning dates. Fun dates. When both spouses put effort into creating fun, romantic, or adventurous experiences, it keeps the relationship exciting and balanced. This means each person initiates being intimate once a week, so two times minimum a week IF you want a passionate marriage 🙌 Alternating who takes the lead prevents either person from feeling burdened and shows that your marriage is a priority. Remember, date night doesn’t have to be out of the house—it’s about intention. Find 50 at-home date ideas in our bio link. 2. Never raise your voice at each other! Disagreements happen, but staying calm and respectful prevents conflict from eroding love and trust. This also sets a positive example for your kids by showing them how to handle disagreements with grace. You can be mad and still be gentle, it is a form of maturity. Great goal to work on. 3. Put your marriage before your kids. When kids see their parents connected, loving, and respectful, they grow up with a model of healthy relationships. Prioritizing your marriage teaches them the value of love and partnership. This is the best gift you can give your kids. 🎁 4. Get healthy together. Exercise, eat well, and support each other physically and mentally. It is part of marriage commitment to take care of yourself and stay attractive. 5. Live within your means. Financial stress impacts intimacy. Set money-saving goals together and cook at home more to save money while staying healthier. Get out of debt as fast as you can, this takes both people working together. 2025 is the perfect time to focus on these goals. By committing to these changes, you’ll strengthen your emotional and intimate connection and lay a foundation of love, security, and joy for your whole family. #Marriage #marriagetips #intimacytips #husbandsneedsmatter #marriagechallenge #relationshipadvice #loveandmarriage #marriagequotes #ultimateintimacy #marriagechallenges #relationshiptip #intimatemarriage #marriagegifts #marriageapp #relationshiptips #goals #marriagegoals #goals2025
Talking to couples where the husband is honest, a good loving and hard working man, yet his needs never seem to matter. He gives and gives and earns, yet his wife does NOT prioritize the sexual intimacy side of marriage.  If you are a wife that thinks your husband can give and give and never receive, that isn’t marriage commitment.  If you kissed him, and made out with him, and flirted with him when you were dating and first married, then one day decided, I don’t really love being intimate any more, I’m too “tired” etc, you are breaking your promises to marriage. You committed to love him and show him love.  If you don’t like being intimate, ask yourself to look deeper and fix the problem so your husband doesn’t have to suffer not feeling loved. - Is there resentment you need to work out? - Is there past trauma you need to get professional help about? - Do you not enjoy sex physically and need to learn how to? - Are you literally too tired and need to take some things off your plate? What is causing you to not want to be intimate, or to not prioritize his desire to be intimate with you?  While withholding intimacy can strain a marriage and may feel like a lack of commitment or loyalty to the other spouse, it’s essential to understand the underlying reasons and address them constructively. Both spouses should work together to rebuild their connection and resolve issues to maintain a healthy and fulfilling marriage. NO ONE signs up for a roommate, boring, non passionate marriage. NO ONE! ***Also, of course we are talking to couples in healthy loving marriages who love each other. Never talking to couples where the husband is abusive in any form. Or where the husband has cut off her emotional needs. That is NEVER ok as we talk about in almost every post. We are also talking to couples in marriages where the husband is the higher drive spouse. We understand this can be reversed absolutely.  What are your thoughts? Is being unfaithful more than just physical and emotional cheating?  We believe not loving and taking care of your spouses’ needs is a form of being unfaithful to your marriage commitment, vows and promises. #Marriage #marriagetips #intimacytips #husbandsneedsmatter #marriagechallenge #marriagepodcast #relationshipadvice #loveandmarriage #marriagequotes #ultimateintimacy #marriagegoals #happymarriage #relationshiptips
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Talking to couples where the husband is honest, a good loving and hard working man, yet his needs never seem to matter. He gives and gives and earns, yet his wife does NOT prioritize the sexual intimacy side of marriage. If you are a wife that thinks your husband can give and give and never receive, that isn’t marriage commitment. If you kissed him, and made out with him, and flirted with him when you were dating and first married, then one day decided, I don’t really love being intimate any more, I’m too “tired” etc, you are breaking your promises to marriage. You committed to love him and show him love. If you don’t like being intimate, ask yourself to look deeper and fix the problem so your husband doesn’t have to suffer not feeling loved. - Is there resentment you need to work out? - Is there past trauma you need to get professional help about? - Do you not enjoy sex physically and need to learn how to? - Are you literally too tired and need to take some things off your plate? What is causing you to not want to be intimate, or to not prioritize his desire to be intimate with you? While withholding intimacy can strain a marriage and may feel like a lack of commitment or loyalty to the other spouse, it’s essential to understand the underlying reasons and address them constructively. Both spouses should work together to rebuild their connection and resolve issues to maintain a healthy and fulfilling marriage. NO ONE signs up for a roommate, boring, non passionate marriage. NO ONE! ***Also, of course we are talking to couples in healthy loving marriages who love each other. Never talking to couples where the husband is abusive in any form. Or where the husband has cut off her emotional needs. That is NEVER ok as we talk about in almost every post. We are also talking to couples in marriages where the husband is the higher drive spouse. We understand this can be reversed absolutely. What are your thoughts? Is being unfaithful more than just physical and emotional cheating? We believe not loving and taking care of your spouses’ needs is a form of being unfaithful to your marriage commitment, vows and promises. #Marriage #marriagetips #intimacytips #husbandsneedsmatter #marriagechallenge #marriagepodcast #relationshipadvice #loveandmarriage #marriagequotes #ultimateintimacy #marriagegoals #happymarriage #relationshiptips
At year 12 of our marriage, we hit a wall. We loved each other, but it felt like something was missing. We were not connected. It wasn’t one big fight or one major crisis — it was a slow drift. We had put other things kids first. Our days revolved around schedules, chores, and responsibilities. We weren’t dating each other anymore. We weren’t talking about the hard things, and when we did, it felt like nothing changed. We both became complacent. And before we knew it, we felt more like roommates than spouses. We told ourselves this was just how marriage gets after a while. Life gets busy. Passion fades. But deep down, we knew we didn’t want just a functional marriage — we wanted a thriving one. We needed to make a change. A big one. We realized that marriage is like a plant — it needs constant watering and nurturing to grow. And without effort, it will wither. So, we started setting boundaries with our time — saying no to things that pulled us away from each other. We communicated better, sharing our needs and frustrations without fear of judgment. And most importantly, we both put in the effort. We started dating again, making time for connection, and prioritizing intimacy. The more we showed up for each other, the more we felt that spark again. We turned our marriage around — and you can too. It doesn’t take grand gestures, just small, consistent changes. Set boundaries to protect your time together. Communicate openly and often. And never stop putting in the effort. When both spouses choose to prioritize their marriage, love grows stronger, deeper, and more fulfilling than ever before. If you’re feeling that same drift, here are three questions to ask each other to start closing the gap and reconnecting: “What’s one thing I can do this week to make you feel more loved and appreciated?” “Is there anything we’ve been avoiding talking about that we need to address together?” “What small thing could we start doing daily to feel more connected as a couple?” Do you feel like roommates or passionate lovers in your marriage?  App is now available directly from our website: ultimateintimacy.com  Over 300 resources to help strengthen your marriage 🙌  #Marriage #marriagetips #intimacytips #husbandsneedsmatter #marriagequotes #marriagechallenge #relationshipadvice #ultimateintimacy #happymarriage #relationshiptip #marriagepodcast #goals2025 #loveandmarriage #intimatemarriage #marriageapp
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At year 12 of our marriage, we hit a wall. We loved each other, but it felt like something was missing. We were not connected. It wasn’t one big fight or one major crisis — it was a slow drift. We had put other things kids first. Our days revolved around schedules, chores, and responsibilities. We weren’t dating each other anymore. We weren’t talking about the hard things, and when we did, it felt like nothing changed. We both became complacent. And before we knew it, we felt more like roommates than spouses. We told ourselves this was just how marriage gets after a while. Life gets busy. Passion fades. But deep down, we knew we didn’t want just a functional marriage — we wanted a thriving one. We needed to make a change. A big one. We realized that marriage is like a plant — it needs constant watering and nurturing to grow. And without effort, it will wither. So, we started setting boundaries with our time — saying no to things that pulled us away from each other. We communicated better, sharing our needs and frustrations without fear of judgment. And most importantly, we both put in the effort. We started dating again, making time for connection, and prioritizing intimacy. The more we showed up for each other, the more we felt that spark again. We turned our marriage around — and you can too. It doesn’t take grand gestures, just small, consistent changes. Set boundaries to protect your time together. Communicate openly and often. And never stop putting in the effort. When both spouses choose to prioritize their marriage, love grows stronger, deeper, and more fulfilling than ever before. If you’re feeling that same drift, here are three questions to ask each other to start closing the gap and reconnecting: “What’s one thing I can do this week to make you feel more loved and appreciated?” “Is there anything we’ve been avoiding talking about that we need to address together?” “What small thing could we start doing daily to feel more connected as a couple?” Do you feel like roommates or passionate lovers in your marriage? App is now available directly from our website: ultimateintimacy.com Over 300 resources to help strengthen your marriage 🙌 #Marriage #marriagetips #intimacytips #husbandsneedsmatter #marriagequotes #marriagechallenge #relationshipadvice #ultimateintimacy #happymarriage #relationshiptip #marriagepodcast #goals2025 #loveandmarriage #intimatemarriage #marriageapp
6. Disconnect from phones after kids are in bed so you can connect together.  7. Check in with each other every single day about your marriage relationship.  8. Celebrate your marriage milestones as a couple.  9. Take a yearly getaway as a couple. 10. Teach your kids that you agree on everything together as a couple and they cannot divide you.   Putting your marriage first doesn’t mean neglecting your kids in any way, and has nothing to do with amount of time.  Putting your marriage first means effort, prioritizing, keeping the marriage intimate, and make sure both spouses needs are getting met.  Anything you would add?  What keeps your marriage strong?  #Marriage #marriagetips #intimacytips #husbandsneedsmatter #marriagechallenge #marriagequotes #relationshipadvice #ultimateintimacy #happymarriage #ultimateintimacy #relationshiptip #marriagepodcast #relationshiptips #goals2025 #loveandmarriage #marriagechallenges #spousefirst #marriagefirst
Typically, wives who no longer love being intimate in their marriage often face one or more of the following challenges: feeling disconnected from their spouse, being physically exhausted due to a lack of support, experiencing high stress levels that diminish libido, feeling bored in the relationship, or struggling with health-related changes that affect desire. If you're experiencing any of these issues, here are five things you can do to reignite the intimacy in your marriage: 1. Rebuild Emotional Connection Start by addressing the emotional disconnection—talk openly with your spouse about your feelings, challenges, and needs to reconnect on a deeper level. 2. Prioritize Self-Care and Rest Ensure you’re taking care of yourself—get enough sleep, manage stress, and seek help around the house to reduce exhaustion and rejuvenate your energy. 3. Bring Back Playfulness and Fun: Rediscover fun activities and moments together to break free from boredom and rekindle the spark in your relationship. 4. Express Your Needs and Desires Be honest about how you want to feel desired again, whether through physical touch, compliments, or acts of affection. 5. Seek Professional Support or Resources, Consider seeking professional help or downloading the Ultimate Intimacy App to explore ways to strengthen your emotional connection and understand the root causes of disconnection. Remember, the key to restoring intimacy starts with emotional connection—download the Ultimate Intimacy App today to explore why the emotional disconnect exists and learn how to rebuild that connection first. #Marriage #marriagetips #marriageapp #marriagechallenge #relationshipadvice #marriagepodcast #marriagequotes #husbandsneedsmatter #sodowivesneedsmatter #ultimateintimacyapp #ultimateintimacy #happymarriage #marriagegoals #healthymarriage
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Typically, wives who no longer love being intimate in their marriage often face one or more of the following challenges: feeling disconnected from their spouse, being physically exhausted due to a lack of support, experiencing high stress levels that diminish libido, feeling bored in the relationship, or struggling with health-related changes that affect desire. If you're experiencing any of these issues, here are five things you can do to reignite the intimacy in your marriage: 1. Rebuild Emotional Connection Start by addressing the emotional disconnection—talk openly with your spouse about your feelings, challenges, and needs to reconnect on a deeper level. 2. Prioritize Self-Care and Rest Ensure you’re taking care of yourself—get enough sleep, manage stress, and seek help around the house to reduce exhaustion and rejuvenate your energy. 3. Bring Back Playfulness and Fun: Rediscover fun activities and moments together to break free from boredom and rekindle the spark in your relationship. 4. Express Your Needs and Desires Be honest about how you want to feel desired again, whether through physical touch, compliments, or acts of affection. 5. Seek Professional Support or Resources, Consider seeking professional help or downloading the Ultimate Intimacy App to explore ways to strengthen your emotional connection and understand the root causes of disconnection. Remember, the key to restoring intimacy starts with emotional connection—download the Ultimate Intimacy App today to explore why the emotional disconnect exists and learn how to rebuild that connection first. #Marriage #marriagetips #marriageapp #marriagechallenge #relationshipadvice #marriagepodcast #marriagequotes #husbandsneedsmatter #sodowivesneedsmatter #ultimateintimacyapp #ultimateintimacy #happymarriage #marriagegoals #healthymarriage
🤝Reduces Stress: Physical touch lowers cortisol levels, reducing stress and anxiety. ‼️Improves Immune System: Regular touch boosts immunity and helps fight off illness. ❤️Lowers Blood Pressure: Touch can help lower blood pressure, promoting heart health. 💤😴Promotes Better Sleep: Touch helps release hormones that improve sleep quality. 🙌Increases Oxytocin: Physical touch increases oxytocin, promoting bonding and reducing anxiety. ❤️Improves Circulation: Touch stimulates blood flow, improving circulation and overall cardiovascular health. 😁Helps Muscle Relaxation: Touch, such as massage, can relieve muscle tension and improve flexibility. ⚡️Boosts Energy Levels: Physical affection can increase feelings of energy and reduce fatigue. ‼️Enhances Skin Health: Regular physical touch promotes better skin health by stimulating the skin’s sensory receptors. 👍Reduces Pain: Physical touch can act as a natural pain reliever by releasing endorphins. So go touch your spouse more! It is good for you!!  what’s keeping you from lots of physical touch in your marriage?  #Marriage #marriagetips #intimacytips #husbandsneedsmatter #marriagechallenge #marriagequotes #relationshipadvice #marriagechallenge #intimatemarriage #marriageapp #relationshiptip #relationshipadvice #marriagepodcast #loveandmarriage #happymarriage
The Art of Compromise: Happy Wife, Happy Life! #marriagetips #marriage #marriageadvice #marriagegoals #relationshipadvice #marriagequotes #relationshipgoals #relationshiptips #marriagetip #relationships #healthymarriage #marriedlife #marriagematters #marriagelife #Relationship #Love #relationshipexpert #dadjokes #happymarriage #marriageisbeautiful #joke #couplegoals #haha #farmjokester #michaelsalerno
Behind every strong and loving husband is a wife who hopefully knows the power and love of initiating intimacy ❤️ When a wife takes the lead in expressing desire to be intimate, it’s more than just about physical connection – it’s a profound affirmation of his worth and desirability as a life partner, spouse, and as a person. It’s a reminder that he’s valued for who he is, not just what he provides. So here’s to the wives who understand the importance of making their husbands feel desired, cherished, and loved, both in and out of the bedroom. 🙌 Your love and initiative make all the difference in your husbands life ❤️ Did you see all the poll answers from the husbands? They all admit that making love is SO much more than a physical pleasure! It is about connection, emotional connection and feeling close to their wife! It makes them feel loved! Wives, 🔥 If you need fun ways to initiate, check out our “make love to me” non-graphic position scratch cards! Link in bio ❤️ If you need more emotional connection first, we hope you will download for free the ultimate intimacy app in Apple and Amazon app stores for TONS of marriage resources, intimate games and conversation starters and quizzes. We know emotional intimacy needs to be strong in marriage! 🎁 If you need help with orgasm or enjoying intimate time in general, we hope there is a product you can find helpful so that you will love being intimate too! Shop.ultimateintimacy.com #Marriage #marriagetips #intimacytips #husbandsneedsmatter #marriagechallenge #marriagequotes #relationshipadvice #ultimateintimacy #marriageapp #marriagequotes #happymarriage #marriagepodcast #relationshiptip #relationshiptips #goals2025
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Behind every strong and loving husband is a wife who hopefully knows the power and love of initiating intimacy ❤️ When a wife takes the lead in expressing desire to be intimate, it’s more than just about physical connection – it’s a profound affirmation of his worth and desirability as a life partner, spouse, and as a person. It’s a reminder that he’s valued for who he is, not just what he provides. So here’s to the wives who understand the importance of making their husbands feel desired, cherished, and loved, both in and out of the bedroom. 🙌 Your love and initiative make all the difference in your husbands life ❤️ Did you see all the poll answers from the husbands? They all admit that making love is SO much more than a physical pleasure! It is about connection, emotional connection and feeling close to their wife! It makes them feel loved! Wives, 🔥 If you need fun ways to initiate, check out our “make love to me” non-graphic position scratch cards! Link in bio ❤️ If you need more emotional connection first, we hope you will download for free the ultimate intimacy app in Apple and Amazon app stores for TONS of marriage resources, intimate games and conversation starters and quizzes. We know emotional intimacy needs to be strong in marriage! 🎁 If you need help with orgasm or enjoying intimate time in general, we hope there is a product you can find helpful so that you will love being intimate too! Shop.ultimateintimacy.com #Marriage #marriagetips #intimacytips #husbandsneedsmatter #marriagechallenge #marriagequotes #relationshipadvice #ultimateintimacy #marriageapp #marriagequotes #happymarriage #marriagepodcast #relationshiptip #relationshiptips #goals2025
If there’s one thing we’ve learned from surveying thousands of married couples, it’s this: everyone wants sex to feel loving, connecting, and uniting. The kind of intimacy that isn’t just physical but emotional too. Husbands and wives alike want to feel seen, respected, and loved before intimacy — and that emotional connection is what makes sex feel truly meaningful in marriage. Here’s the truth: emotional intimacy needs to come FIRST. When a wife feels emotionally safe, loved, and valued, her desire for physical intimacy grows naturally. And when a husband feels truly connected, he experiences the depth of intimacy he craves too. It becomes more than just an act — it becomes "making love" in every sense of the word.  For this kind of intimacy to happen, kindness, respect, loyalty, and love must be at the core of a marriage. Without those things, intimacy can feel like an obligation or something that’s done out of duty rather than desire. But when both spouses feel emotionally connected? That’s when sex transforms into something powerful, meaningful, and deeply uniting. Husbands want this too. The survey we conducted made it clear — men want their wives to feel loved and connected, because that’s when intimacy feels the most fulfilling for both of them. Husbands want intimacy that makes their marriage stronger, not just a quick physical release. They want their spouse to want them — not out of duty, but out of genuine connection. The key is understanding that emotional intimacy is the foundation. It’s not just a “nice bonus” — it’s essential for creating the type of sex life both spouses dream of. Love first, intimacy follows. That’s how marriages thrive. And when emotional intimacy is there, Sexual intimacy NEEDS to be prioritized in the marriage. This is what keeps a relationship passionate. AGREE?  Download the app for free at ultimatentimacy.com for HUNDREDS of free resources created with experts to help strengthen the emotional AND sexual intimacy in your marriage, AND your communication! #intimatemarriage #loveandmarriage #goals2025 #intimacytips #marriagepodcast #relationshiptip #marriagefirst #happymarriage #ultimateintimacy #marriagequotes #marriagechallenge #relationshipadvice #Marriage #marriagetips
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If there’s one thing we’ve learned from surveying thousands of married couples, it’s this: everyone wants sex to feel loving, connecting, and uniting. The kind of intimacy that isn’t just physical but emotional too. Husbands and wives alike want to feel seen, respected, and loved before intimacy — and that emotional connection is what makes sex feel truly meaningful in marriage. Here’s the truth: emotional intimacy needs to come FIRST. When a wife feels emotionally safe, loved, and valued, her desire for physical intimacy grows naturally. And when a husband feels truly connected, he experiences the depth of intimacy he craves too. It becomes more than just an act — it becomes "making love" in every sense of the word. For this kind of intimacy to happen, kindness, respect, loyalty, and love must be at the core of a marriage. Without those things, intimacy can feel like an obligation or something that’s done out of duty rather than desire. But when both spouses feel emotionally connected? That’s when sex transforms into something powerful, meaningful, and deeply uniting. Husbands want this too. The survey we conducted made it clear — men want their wives to feel loved and connected, because that’s when intimacy feels the most fulfilling for both of them. Husbands want intimacy that makes their marriage stronger, not just a quick physical release. They want their spouse to want them — not out of duty, but out of genuine connection. The key is understanding that emotional intimacy is the foundation. It’s not just a “nice bonus” — it’s essential for creating the type of sex life both spouses dream of. Love first, intimacy follows. That’s how marriages thrive. And when emotional intimacy is there, Sexual intimacy NEEDS to be prioritized in the marriage. This is what keeps a relationship passionate. AGREE? Download the app for free at ultimatentimacy.com for HUNDREDS of free resources created with experts to help strengthen the emotional AND sexual intimacy in your marriage, AND your communication! #intimatemarriage #loveandmarriage #goals2025 #intimacytips #marriagepodcast #relationshiptip #marriagefirst #happymarriage #ultimateintimacy #marriagequotes #marriagechallenge #relationshipadvice #Marriage #marriagetips
There is nothing better than a husband who CARES. a husband who TRIES. A husband who loves God and that shows in the way he cares for his family. A man doesn’t need to be a perfect husband in any way, but if his wife and family can FEEL that he loves them, wants to take care of them, and provide for them in far more than just money... that is emotional intimacy. Emotional Intimacy is more about how you make someone FEEL rather than just what you do. While actions and behaviors certainly play a role in nurturing emotional intimacy, it’s the deeper connection and understanding that you cultivate with your spouse that truly fosters emotional intimacy. Emotional intimacy involves being vulnerable, empathetic, and supportive towards your spouse. It’s about creating a safe space where both of you feel comfortable expressing your true thoughts, feelings, and desires without fear of judgment or rejection. It’s about listening actively, validating emotions, and showing empathy towards your spouse’s experiences. Ultimately, emotional intimacy is about building a deep emotional bond based on trust, respect, and mutual understanding. It’s about making your spouse feel valued, appreciated, and loved for who they are, not just for what they do. This is what makes a husband (and a wife) so great. It starts with caring ❤️ Do you agree? 📱Don’t forget to download the ultimate intimacy app in the Apple and Amazon App stores for free to strengthen and spice up your marriage relationship!! Over 200 resources 🔥🙌 ultimateintimacy.com -bedroom game customizable -quizzes -intimate conversation starters -private chat -intimate calendar -expert resources -intimate products and so much more! @ultimateintimacyapp on Instagram for daily marriage tips #Marriage #marriagetips #intimacytips #husbandsneedsmatter #marriagequotes #marriagechallenge #marriagechallengereels #marriagequotes #relationshipadvice #ultimateintimacy #happymarriage #marriagefirst #beingaprovider #husbandtips #goodhusband #goodfather
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There is nothing better than a husband who CARES. a husband who TRIES. A husband who loves God and that shows in the way he cares for his family. A man doesn’t need to be a perfect husband in any way, but if his wife and family can FEEL that he loves them, wants to take care of them, and provide for them in far more than just money... that is emotional intimacy. Emotional Intimacy is more about how you make someone FEEL rather than just what you do. While actions and behaviors certainly play a role in nurturing emotional intimacy, it’s the deeper connection and understanding that you cultivate with your spouse that truly fosters emotional intimacy. Emotional intimacy involves being vulnerable, empathetic, and supportive towards your spouse. It’s about creating a safe space where both of you feel comfortable expressing your true thoughts, feelings, and desires without fear of judgment or rejection. It’s about listening actively, validating emotions, and showing empathy towards your spouse’s experiences. Ultimately, emotional intimacy is about building a deep emotional bond based on trust, respect, and mutual understanding. It’s about making your spouse feel valued, appreciated, and loved for who they are, not just for what they do. This is what makes a husband (and a wife) so great. It starts with caring ❤️ Do you agree? 📱Don’t forget to download the ultimate intimacy app in the Apple and Amazon App stores for free to strengthen and spice up your marriage relationship!! Over 200 resources 🔥🙌 ultimateintimacy.com -bedroom game customizable -quizzes -intimate conversation starters -private chat -intimate calendar -expert resources -intimate products and so much more! @ultimateintimacyapp on Instagram for daily marriage tips #Marriage #marriagetips #intimacytips #husbandsneedsmatter #marriagequotes #marriagechallenge #marriagechallengereels #marriagequotes #relationshipadvice #ultimateintimacy #happymarriage #marriagefirst #beingaprovider #husbandtips #goodhusband #goodfather
The more we spend time talking to couples, the more we realize that we all actually need the same things!  Our needs are remarkably similar because, at their core, we all seek love, respect, and connection in our relationships. Both spouses desire emotional intimacy, where they feel understood, valued, and appreciated. Additionally, both husbands AND wives benefit from physical intimacy, shared experiences, and collaborative efforts in managing life’s responsibilities.  By recognizing and addressing these common needs, we can all create a balanced and harmonious partnership that nurtures both individuals needs and desires ❤️ Yes, we constantly talk about how one spouse typically needs more physical or sexual intimacy, and one needs more emotional connection, but they both go hand in hand, and it is typically because BOTH need that emotional connection through the sexual intimacy. We are actually alike! Do you agree?  Do women need more or do husbands need more? What does this look like in your marriage? Do you feel like deep down our needs are actually the same?  Great resources to strengthen intimacy in your marriage:  Resources: links in bio.  - The kissing challenge 💋 - 50 ways to strengthen emotional intimacy  - New podcast episode 275: “being a good provider doesn’t make you a good husband… there is so much more”  #Marriage #marriagetips #intimacytips #husbandsneedsmatter #marriagechallenge #marriagepodcast #relationshipadvice #loveandmarriage #marriagequotes #ultimateintimacy #relationshipadvice #marriagepodcast #marriagechallenges #relationshiptip #intimatemarriage #happymarriage #marriagegoals
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The more we spend time talking to couples, the more we realize that we all actually need the same things! Our needs are remarkably similar because, at their core, we all seek love, respect, and connection in our relationships. Both spouses desire emotional intimacy, where they feel understood, valued, and appreciated. Additionally, both husbands AND wives benefit from physical intimacy, shared experiences, and collaborative efforts in managing life’s responsibilities. By recognizing and addressing these common needs, we can all create a balanced and harmonious partnership that nurtures both individuals needs and desires ❤️ Yes, we constantly talk about how one spouse typically needs more physical or sexual intimacy, and one needs more emotional connection, but they both go hand in hand, and it is typically because BOTH need that emotional connection through the sexual intimacy. We are actually alike! Do you agree? Do women need more or do husbands need more? What does this look like in your marriage? Do you feel like deep down our needs are actually the same? Great resources to strengthen intimacy in your marriage: Resources: links in bio. - The kissing challenge 💋 - 50 ways to strengthen emotional intimacy - New podcast episode 275: “being a good provider doesn’t make you a good husband… there is so much more” #Marriage #marriagetips #intimacytips #husbandsneedsmatter #marriagechallenge #marriagepodcast #relationshipadvice #loveandmarriage #marriagequotes #ultimateintimacy #relationshipadvice #marriagepodcast #marriagechallenges #relationshiptip #intimatemarriage #happymarriage #marriagegoals
Sometimes, we overcomplicate what husbands really want in marriage. The truth? It’s simple. Husbands crave love in small, meaningful ways—ways that are often overlooked. And while marriage is a two-way street, as wives, we hold so much power in making our husbands feel loved, respected, and wanted. Taking care of yourself—your appearance, your health, your happiness—matters to your husband more than you realize. It shows him you value yourself and, in turn, your relationship. It’s not about perfection; it’s about effort. He fell in love with YOU, and he still wants to see that spark of confidence and joy that made him choose you. Making his favorite meal or surprising him with something he loves? It’s not about the food—it’s about thoughtfulness. It says, “I know you, I see you, and I want to do something to make your day better.” These little gestures of love speak volumes to his heart. When it comes to intimacy, husbands don’t just want sex—they want to feel wanted. A wife who desires intimacy with her husband makes him feel connected, respected, and important. It’s not just physical; it’s emotional, too. Intimacy is where a man feels closest to his wife, so wanting him in that way matters more than you think. Gratitude is a game-changer. Husbands want to feel appreciated for the things they do, whether it’s providing for the family, working hard, or being present. A simple “thank you” goes a long way in reminding him that his efforts aren’t going unnoticed. These aren’t difficult things to give. It’s about being intentional, seeing your husband, and loving him in ways that matter most to him. When you focus on what your husband needs, your marriage shifts. A good, loving husband deserves to feel cherished.  Are you doing these things?  Or are you letting the busyness of life get in the way of your connection?  It’s time to prioritize your marriage. The payoff is always worth it 🩷 #Marriage #marriagetips #intimacytips #husbandsneedsmatter #marriagechallenge #marriagequotes #relationshipadvice #intimatemarriage #marriageapp #happymarriage #marriagegoals #beingaprovider #ultimateintimacy #goals2025 #
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Sometimes, we overcomplicate what husbands really want in marriage. The truth? It’s simple. Husbands crave love in small, meaningful ways—ways that are often overlooked. And while marriage is a two-way street, as wives, we hold so much power in making our husbands feel loved, respected, and wanted. Taking care of yourself—your appearance, your health, your happiness—matters to your husband more than you realize. It shows him you value yourself and, in turn, your relationship. It’s not about perfection; it’s about effort. He fell in love with YOU, and he still wants to see that spark of confidence and joy that made him choose you. Making his favorite meal or surprising him with something he loves? It’s not about the food—it’s about thoughtfulness. It says, “I know you, I see you, and I want to do something to make your day better.” These little gestures of love speak volumes to his heart. When it comes to intimacy, husbands don’t just want sex—they want to feel wanted. A wife who desires intimacy with her husband makes him feel connected, respected, and important. It’s not just physical; it’s emotional, too. Intimacy is where a man feels closest to his wife, so wanting him in that way matters more than you think. Gratitude is a game-changer. Husbands want to feel appreciated for the things they do, whether it’s providing for the family, working hard, or being present. A simple “thank you” goes a long way in reminding him that his efforts aren’t going unnoticed. These aren’t difficult things to give. It’s about being intentional, seeing your husband, and loving him in ways that matter most to him. When you focus on what your husband needs, your marriage shifts. A good, loving husband deserves to feel cherished. Are you doing these things? Or are you letting the busyness of life get in the way of your connection? It’s time to prioritize your marriage. The payoff is always worth it 🩷 #Marriage #marriagetips #intimacytips #husbandsneedsmatter #marriagechallenge #marriagequotes #relationshipadvice #intimatemarriage #marriageapp #happymarriage #marriagegoals #beingaprovider #ultimateintimacy #goals2025 #
Here’s the truth ⬇️ Time 👏🏼 Will 👏🏼 Not 👏🏼 Heal 👏🏼 Your 👏🏼 Marriage 👏🏼 I hate to break it to you, but time won’t heal your marriage. The longer you go without addressing the issues, the further the chasm in your connection will become. So many more issues pop up in the gap between knowing something is off and doing something about it.  These unhealthy choices create grave consequences and sometimes make rebuilding trust or reconciliation impossible. I know it’s scary, but you must take the terrifying leap and face it… it’s time to have the tough conversations today. 🙏🏼 Picture yourself jumping off of the mountain 🏔️ - God will guide you every step of the way.  Or picture ripping the bandaid off 🩹 - If nothing changes, nothing will change.  BONUS TIP: Another mistake people make is trying to rebuild trust and intimacy without help. So many of my clients confess that they’ve been trying to heal their marriage alone, and within three to four months of coaching with me, they’re experiencing the breakthroughs they’ve been hoping for. Schedule your FREE 30-minute session with me to see if what I do for my clients is a good fit for you. Comment HELP below, and we can chat. ❤️  #marriage #marriagegoals #Hiking #hikingtoheal  #hiketoheal  #getoutdoors #marriagequotes #marriagehelp #relationships #relationshipgoals #relationshipquotes #relationshipadvice #marriagetip #livingreframed #sevenprimalquestions #certifiedprimalquestioncoach #intimacy #married29years
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Here’s the truth ⬇️ Time 👏🏼 Will 👏🏼 Not 👏🏼 Heal 👏🏼 Your 👏🏼 Marriage 👏🏼 I hate to break it to you, but time won’t heal your marriage. The longer you go without addressing the issues, the further the chasm in your connection will become. So many more issues pop up in the gap between knowing something is off and doing something about it. These unhealthy choices create grave consequences and sometimes make rebuilding trust or reconciliation impossible. I know it’s scary, but you must take the terrifying leap and face it… it’s time to have the tough conversations today. 🙏🏼 Picture yourself jumping off of the mountain 🏔️ - God will guide you every step of the way. Or picture ripping the bandaid off 🩹 - If nothing changes, nothing will change. BONUS TIP: Another mistake people make is trying to rebuild trust and intimacy without help. So many of my clients confess that they’ve been trying to heal their marriage alone, and within three to four months of coaching with me, they’re experiencing the breakthroughs they’ve been hoping for. Schedule your FREE 30-minute session with me to see if what I do for my clients is a good fit for you. Comment HELP below, and we can chat. ❤️ #marriage #marriagegoals #Hiking #hikingtoheal #hiketoheal #getoutdoors #marriagequotes #marriagehelp #relationships #relationshipgoals #relationshipquotes #relationshipadvice #marriagetip #livingreframed #sevenprimalquestions #certifiedprimalquestioncoach #intimacy #married29years
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When a couple tells me they never fight, I know that can mean three things: 1️⃣ They never communicate  Or  2️⃣ They’ve given up trying. Indifference has kicked in, which is a very dangerous place.  And 3️⃣ They have no physical intimacy. It’s HEALTHY to have disagreements and conflict. Conflict allows us to learn about each other. It requires intense energy and for us to use our voice; Both are required for physical intimacy, as well. 🔥 And an argument? That’s a beautiful opportunity for some excellent make-up s3x!  So please… don’t boast about never fighting. And never compare your marriage to others who boast about such things. 😉 Find your voice and do the hard work of maturing your marriage to create a soft place to express differences.❤️ #marriage #marriagegoals #marriagequotes #marriagehelp #relationships #relationshipgoals #relationshipquotes #relationshipadvice #marriagetip #livingreframed #sevenprimalquestions #certifiedprimalquestioncoach #intimacy
Couples who stand the test of time turn toward each other’s bids for connection 86% of the time. What is a bid for connection? A “bid for connection” is anything you do or your partner does to get the other person’s attention and connection with them. This can be a comment, shared meme, gesture, eye contact, etc. It can be subtle or overt.  It may feel like your partner’s timing is terrible when they present a bid for connection… and over time, if you turn away from them or, worse, turn against them… over time that can spell trouble for your future. Pay attention this week to your partner’s bids for connection. Try to turn toward them more often than not. What's one way you often present a bid for connection? #marriage #bidsforconnection #marriagegoals #marriagequotes #marriagehelp #relationships #relationshipgoals #relationshipquotes #relationshipadvice #marriagetip #livingreframed #sevenprimalquestions #certifiedprimalquestioncoach #intimacy #married29years
The gratitude overwhelms me. If we had not sacrificed, humbled ourselves, and fought for our marriage, we would have missed out on this magical season. Countless couples find themselves looking at a stranger once they have an empty nest. No passion, no sex, no desire, no friendship… just painful distance and silence.  🚨Please hear me out…🚨 DO 👏🏼 NOT 👏🏼 PUT 👏🏼 YOUR 👏🏼 KIDS 👏🏼 BEFORE 👏🏼 YOUR 👏🏼 MARRIAGE Reconnect today. Have the hard conversations today. Get help for your marriage today. It is fixable. You can heal. And yes, you CAN fall back in love with each other, but it takes work. Just like all living things, your marriage will die if not fed.  This is the most challenging part: taking the first step. Comment HELP or DM me if you’d like a free 30-minute session to see if what I do for my clients is a good fit for you. ❤️ (Some marriages should not be fixed. This does not apply to abusive relationships. Ultimately, it takes TWO adults willing to humble themselves and do the work.) #marriage #marriagegoals #Hiking #hikingtoheal  #hiketoheal  #getoutdoors #marriagequotes #marriagehelp #relationships #relationshipgoals #relationshipquotes #relationshipadvice #marriagetip #livingreframed #sevenprimalquestions #certifiedprimalquestioncoach #intimacy #married29years

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