Men, have you ever mistaken initial EXCITEMENT for true LOVE? Share your thoughts in the comments below 👇🏼 That rush you feel when she texts back? The butterflies, the constant thinking about her, the way you’re checking your phone every few minutes... It feels like love, right? But what if it’s not? That exhilaration isn’t necessarily love — it’s intermittent reinforcement. The excitement comes from not knowing when or if she’ll respond, which triggers a reward system in your brain. And when she finally does? That dopamine hit feels addictive. It’s easy to mistake this emotional high for something deeper, but true connection isn’t about the thrill of uncertainty. It's built on trust, consistency, and mutual respect. ✨ Therapy can help you separate genuine feelings from emotional excitement.
✨ It can help you slow down and navigate your emotions without getting swept up in the high. So, before you lose yourself in the excitement of what if, pause. Reflect. What do you really want out of this connection? 🙌🏼 Follow @christiectherapy for more insights into dating and relationships!
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