multiplepartners hashtag performance

I posted about this recently on Threads and it ruffled some feathers. I’m not my partners’ mama, I don’t own them. If someone else wants to verify before they date one of my partners, that’s on my partner to find ways to reassure them, not on me. I understand some prefer to reach out and that’s fine if it’s consented to, however I don’t consent. I love meeting metas and to get to know one another, but that’s because they want to know me as a person and I want to know them as a person, not to run a check to make sure no one is cheating. #polyamorous #polyamory #multiplepartners #nonmonogamy

Replying to @Melinda Gill Anyone can get hurt in any type of relationship. Like the commenter was hurt by a friend. There is no superiority that makes that less likely to happen in momogamous relationships nor is it more likely to happen to polyamorous people. #polyamory #polyamorous #multiplepartners #nonmonogamy #relationships

Replying to @Mickey everything with my partners is open for conversation and consideration and everyone is free to have a say. I do see one partner more often because we live together. I’d love to see the partner I don’t live with more often and so would he, but we can’t pull more time out of thin air - although I wish we could! Time isn’t infinite. #polyamory #polyamorous #multiplepartners #longtermpolyamory #nonmonogamy #relationships

#onthisday I have a personal “rule” that if I can talk about one partner, I can talk about all partners. If I don’t feel comfortable talking about all partners, I don’t talk about any. This was when I came out to my manager, which is a huge risk as polyamory is not a protected class and people have been fired for it. My manager is super sweet though. #polyamorous #polyamory #polyam #multiplepartners #work #manager