You shouldn’t have to beg for space in people’s lives.The people who truly care about you will naturally make room. They’ll check in, show up, and remember the little things—because to them, you’re not an afterthought or a convenience. You’re part of their world in a way that doesn’t require constant convincing. But I know how easy it is to fall into the trap of chasing connection. Sometimes it feels like if you just try harder, they’ll finally see your worth. Maybe if you reach out first (again) or downplay your own needs, they’ll stay. But here’s the truth—relationships shouldn’t feel like auditions. Real love, real friendship, real belonging? Those things don’t hinge on you proving yourself over and over. It’s hard to accept, but when someone consistently makes you feel like you’re on the sidelines, it’s not a reflection of your value. It’s a reflection of where they are—and that’s not something you can fix by shrinking yourself to fit the cracks they offer. You deserve to be in spaces where your presence is cherished, not tolerated. Where your voice is heard without having to raise it louder than your comfort allows. You are worthy of the kind of love that feels mutual, not conditional.So, if you feel like you’re begging for space, take a step back. Pay attention to who notices your absence, who reaches out, and who lets the silence linger. Those who care will make the effort—without being asked.
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