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#StockholmSyndrome explores the psychological phenomenon where hostages develop feelings for their captors. It highlights complex emotional connections, trauma bonds, manipulation, survival instincts, and the intricacies of human relationships in distress.
Blaming victims for their abuse is counterproductive. Though frustrating, I’m fascinated by most people's short-sided immaturity.  Unfortunately, when it comes to placing blame, people often blame those they can access. Maybe it has something to do with a need for instant gratification. Or they have fear that in exploring the abuser, they may see traits of themselves. Is it possible that differentiating an abuser from others is difficult because the idea that anyone can be an abuser is too frightening to accept? But the victim, if exposed, is undeniable. And because the incident happened to the victim, we have an easy answer: they must have done something to be victimized. The commenter who is the topic of this video, took it a step further by offering an explanation of why I “allowed” myself to be victimized. My family doesn’t have access to my father. I’m sure to many of them, he’s like a mythical creature, only known through the “outlandish tales” of those who have been his victims.  The person they knew wasn’t a sordid rapist pedophile. While they didn’t always agree, my uncles, aunts, and cousins partied, conversed, made music, and happily socialized with my father. So rather than accept they were very comfortable consorting with a demon (whether they knew it or not), I, the victim, must have played some role in making him that way. My point is that this type of thinking is divisive and creates spaces for abusers to hide. Something has to change. #unsahamed1 #notalone #itsoktotell #stockholmesyndrome #MentalHealthAwareness #HealingJourney
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Blaming victims for their abuse is counterproductive. Though frustrating, I’m fascinated by most people's short-sided immaturity. Unfortunately, when it comes to placing blame, people often blame those they can access. Maybe it has something to do with a need for instant gratification. Or they have fear that in exploring the abuser, they may see traits of themselves. Is it possible that differentiating an abuser from others is difficult because the idea that anyone can be an abuser is too frightening to accept? But the victim, if exposed, is undeniable. And because the incident happened to the victim, we have an easy answer: they must have done something to be victimized. The commenter who is the topic of this video, took it a step further by offering an explanation of why I “allowed” myself to be victimized. My family doesn’t have access to my father. I’m sure to many of them, he’s like a mythical creature, only known through the “outlandish tales” of those who have been his victims. The person they knew wasn’t a sordid rapist pedophile. While they didn’t always agree, my uncles, aunts, and cousins partied, conversed, made music, and happily socialized with my father. So rather than accept they were very comfortable consorting with a demon (whether they knew it or not), I, the victim, must have played some role in making him that way. My point is that this type of thinking is divisive and creates spaces for abusers to hide. Something has to change. #unsahamed1 #notalone #itsoktotell #stockholmesyndrome #MentalHealthAwareness #HealingJourney

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