Tisia X’iare Vere

Where it all started.. 😂😂❤️❤️ 🗣️LIE 😂😂

Something ain’t right about that man! Ladies what happened when you gave your DM stalker a chance? 👀🫠 #relationshipadvice #deartisia #relationshiprestored #datingtips #dms

Is your trauma behind you or sitting next to you? ⬇️ Follow Dear Tisia on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and YouTube! #deartisia #relationshipadvice #datingtips #healing #relationshiprestored #therapy

Y’all not tired of the roller coaster? 🫠 Here’s what it really means when he only tries after you walk away. ⬇️ 1. He’s addicted to the chase, not the connection 2. He doesn’t want to lose you, but doesn’t truly want to commit 3. ���He values your attention..not your presence 4. He’s emotionally reactive and hasn’t done the work 5. His ego is loud 6. He wants access, not depth 7. He wants to be validated and have his ego stroked.. not a relationship with you. 8. He’s more motivated by your absence than your presence 9. He’s trying to regain control.. not fix the problem 10. ���He’s attracted to chaos.. not peace #breakups #feminineenergy #datingtips #relationships #deartisia

A man coming back 8 months later is the SAME MAN! 😂❤️ #relationshipadvice #deartisia #breakups #spintheblock #relationshiprestored

Can a man be a good parent if he wasn’t a good partner to you? New episode out now! Follow on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and YouTube! #parenting #deartisia #fatherhood #singlemom #relationshiprestored

Nothing worse than being played by a man who wasn’t your type 😭🫠 #datingtips #relationshipadvice #datingcoach

1. Be a Little Mysterious: Stop over sharing and emotionally dumping upfront.. give him something to be curious about. 2. Be emotionally disciplined: Confuse him by speaking less 😂.. men literally don’t understand women who have control over their emotions. 3. De-center him and prioritize yourself: a man will treat how you treat yourself… don’t make him the center of your world. 4. Learn how to say no/boundaries: babyyyyy a very feminine “that’s not going to work for me” is a game changer ..don’t do what you don’t do.. and stand on it. 5. Allow him to lead: let him initiate.. give him the space to decide how and if he wants to pursue you. Tell me in the comments ⬇️ what you did to make him obsessed!

Sending hugs to all of you ladies 🥺🫂🫶🏽 Who can relate? Tell me in the comments ⬇️ Be sure to follow on Apple, Spotify, and YouTube! #mommyissues #parents #deartisia #relationshiprestored

Did I miss anything?? 1. YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM IS WIRED FOR CHAOS: The crying, arguing, and fighting is normal to you. It feels normal because of your past or childhood. 2. YOU HAVEN’T HEALED YOUR CHILDHOOD TRAUMA: Abandonment wounds are REAL. You can spend your whole life chasing your parent in a partner 👀 3. YOU’RE ADDICTED TO THE HIGHS AND LOWS: The dopamine that you get from a make up and break up, blocking and reconnecting, breaking no contact, and being off and on is keeping you with the same man over and over. 4. YOU WANT TO PROVE YOUR SELF WORTH: Your self worth is dependent on a relationship title and if a man has chosen you or not. You don’t know yourself outside of a man’s gaze. 5. YOU’D RATHER BE ANYTHING BUT ALONE: Being alone means you’ve have to face the silence and be uncomfortable in your healing. A toxic relationship is more comfortable and easier than doing the work. Comment “join” to join my Secret Girls chat if you find yourself going back to the same person and you’re ready to level up! #relationshipadvice #breakups #datingtips #selfworth