Explanation below ⬇️ 3 comebacks to use when they say: where’s your outfit from? Amazon? (In a condescending tone). -I love how much attention you’re giving it - Want a link? This response flips the tone of the interaction by reframing their condescension as admiration. By doing this, you set a tone of self-respect and composure, while also subtly highlighting the pettiness of their original tone. Instead of getting defensive, it conveys confidence and implies that their comment is a compliment, even if it wasn’t meant to be. This subtle reframe disarms the person and takes the power out of their attempt to belittle you. -It is - I love a good find, no matter the label. Want a link? This phrase normalizes your choice and models self-assuredness, setting a boundary against materialistic judgment without inviting conflict. It subtly dismisses the social pressure to wear certain brands, which could have been the basis of their condescension. Offering a link conveys generosity rather than defensiveness, keeping you in control. -Does knowing the brand change your opinion of it? This response subtly challenges the superficiality of their focus. The question forces them to pause and think about the meaning behind their comment. This puts the responsibility for the conversation back on them, making them question their motives without needing to explain yourself. It also conveys that your self-worth isn’t tied to their approval or to the label you’re wearing and that you’re uninterested in being judged based on brands. If comments like these throw you off, book a 1:1 with me in my link in bio so you can learn how to navigate awkward conversations and become the assertive you. & if you’d like the links to this Amazon outfit, comment OUTFIT & I’ll send you a personalized message with links.
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