Thank goodness for increased clarity and boldness. Iām not the ācontent creator,ā therapist, or coach for Men who: - Believe men should be in power over women. Believing women have no input into their experience (i.e. how they are treated, expectations, standards, boundaries) and should take whatever a man gives them, supporting him all along the way. Even worse when the justification is ābecause God said āSUBMIT!ā in the Bible.ā Spiritual manipulation is creepy as hell. - Think Iām here to put women āin their placeā but when the spotlight is turned back to you, suddenly nothing Iām saying makes sense. I obviously hold everyone to the same standards. Bucking up when itās your turn is your resistance to being held accountable. You know.. that same problem you despise in women. - Insist on staying in denial about the impact of men mistreating, mishandling, or outright oppressing women (the social system of patriarchy). The regular defense of āman in chargeā without accounting for how the social system of patriarchy has negatively impacted women, children, and men themselves is just as ludicrous as women refusing to acknowledge the pitfalls of feminism. I like order and structure AND I hate ignorance and mistreatment from ANYONE for ANY reason. The way people justify double standards, or worse they just assert crazy thinking without any justification at all- is just too dumb for me to deal with. Man or Woman - I canāt work with irrational people who refuse logic, justice, fairness, and basic human decency. Especially when youāre so arrogant as to use āGodā as a smokescreen to deflect from your fallacies. Finally, as it relates to this reel, one of the most basic tenants of leadership is: responsibility. Even when itās not your āfault,ā a leader takes ownership of the results and does whatās needed to change the outcomes. I can understand that would seem unfair and wild to someone who has never been around good leadership, never led, or never studied it. Whew š®āšØ Iām enjoying 2025 a lot already! ā¢ ā¢ ā¢ ā¢ ā¢ ā¢
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