This year!! This FCKIN YEARRRRR!! So many memories, so many lessons and even more blessings. This year has been heavy in ways I didnāt expect. Iāve had to learn to leave people where they choose to stay, even when I wanted to pull them closer. Itās a quiet kind of pain, realizing that some people wonāt meet you halfway, no matter how much you care. I struggled with itāwondering if I wasnāt enough or if I did something wrong. But after a while, I stopped fighting for people who wouldnāt fight for me. It wasnāt easy, and the ache doesnāt go away overnight, but Iāve started to understand that holding on too tightly only leaves my hands bruised. Iāve also learned that not everything needs my reaction, though thatās a lesson Iām still trying to master. There were moments when I wanted to lash out, defend myself, or explain my side just to feel heard. But I realized that reacting doesnāt always bring peaceāit only drags out the hurt. Iām learning to sit with the discomfort, let the emotions pass, and choose silence when words would only make it worse. Itās not a perfect process some days, the pain feels fresh, and healing feels slow. But little by little, Iām finding strength in letting goāof people, of expectations, and of the need to fix everything.
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