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#FathersMatter emphasizes the vital role fathers play in children's lives, promoting emotional support, bonding, involvement, guidance, love, responsibility, positive influence, mental health, nurturing relationships, advocacy, community, and shared parenting.

How a good man becomes a Wise man. 🙏🏽❤️ Elise #mensmentalhealth #mensmentalhealthawareness #mensmentalhealthmatters #menmatter #fathersmatter #HealingJourney #traumahealing #healingtrauma

How a good man becomes a Wise man. 🙏🏽❤️ Elise #mensmentalhealth #mensmentalhealthawareness #mensmentalhealthmatters #menmatter #fathersmatter #HealingJourney #traumahealing #healingtrauma

Father/Dad/Daddy/Pops/OG… Whatever Your Children Call You, Please Know That Your PHYSICAL Presence Matters!! There Is No Age Where We Stop Needing You! Your Pour Is Necessary, Your Wisdom Is Necessary, Your “Just Because” Calls Are Necessary, Your Hugs Are Necessary, YOU ARE NECESSARY!! I, A 27 Year Old, Grown, Married Black Man, Told My Daddy That I Needed A Hug From Him ASAP, And 3 Weeks Later, He Was At My Home, Embracing Me Like Only A Father Can! My Big 175lbs, 6’2 Self Was Able To Lay in My Father’s Lap And Receive Love, Prayer and Wisdom, All Because My Daddy SHOWED UP!!! I Didn’t Need A DIME From Him! His Presence Has Added To My Wealth In A Way That Money Never Could! If You Have Seed Out Here In This Earth, JUST SHOW UP! WE NEED YOU! 🫂💙🥹 #fatherson #daddysboy #boydad #fathersmatter #blackdads #fyp #foryou #Foryoupage

Father/Dad/Daddy/Pops/OG… Whatever Your Children Call You, Please Know That Your PHYSICAL Presence Matters!! There Is No Age Where We Stop Needing You! Your Pour Is Necessary, Your Wisdom Is Necessary, Your “Just Because” Calls Are Necessary, Your Hugs Are Necessary, YOU ARE NECESSARY!! I, A 27 Year Old, Grown, Married Black Man, Told My Daddy That I Needed A Hug From Him ASAP, And 3 Weeks Later, He Was At My Home, Embracing Me Like Only A Father Can! My Big 175lbs, 6’2 Self Was Able To Lay in My Father’s Lap And Receive Love, Prayer and Wisdom, All Because My Daddy SHOWED UP!!! I Didn’t Need A DIME From Him! His Presence Has Added To My Wealth In A Way That Money Never Could! If You Have Seed Out Here In This Earth, JUST SHOW UP! WE NEED YOU! 🫂💙🥹 #fatherson #daddysboy #boydad #fathersmatter #blackdads #fyp #foryou #Foryoupage

This is going to be a new series that I'm going to be having on my channel, to better connect people that have gone through this issue is currently going through this issue or will in their life go through this issue. #lifeafter #newseries #iamwhoiam #dadsmatter #alienation #narcissistic #fathersmatter

This is going to be a new series that I'm going to be having on my channel, to better connect people that have gone through this issue is currently going through this issue or will in their life go through this issue. #lifeafter #newseries #iamwhoiam #dadsmatter #alienation #narcissistic #fathersmatter

It’s a story of pain, struggle, and a system that pushed him to the edge. Tune in to hear his side and what led him to make this heartbreaking decision. 🗣️✨ 🎥 Watch the full story on YouTube! #parentalalienation #FathersMatter #familycourt #kidsfirst #coparenting

It’s a story of pain, struggle, and a system that pushed him to the edge. Tune in to hear his side and what led him to make this heartbreaking decision. 🗣️✨ 🎥 Watch the full story on YouTube! #parentalalienation #FathersMatter #familycourt #kidsfirst #coparenting

#Fathersmatter #Fathers #dad #pops #fyp #viralvideo #facts #parenthood #parent #💪🏾

#Fathersmatter #Fathers #dad #pops #fyp #viralvideo #facts #parenthood #parent #💪🏾

Men will fight to the death for the people they love. But at a certain point, if he feels it’s not being reciprocated, he will simply STOP fighting. No anger. No walking away. No bickering. The epitome of a man who has given up is a quiet man. He needs to know someone is fighting WITH him, not AGAINST him. He wants to know someone is FOR him. Or else it’s not worth the fight. 👉As always, link to coaching below ❤️ Elise https://buff.ly/4bZeFnD #mensmentalhealth #mensmentalhealthawareness #mensmentalhealthmatters #menmatter #toxicrelationships #healthyrelationships #relationshiptips #fathersmatter #traumahealing

Men will fight to the death for the people they love. But at a certain point, if he feels it’s not being reciprocated, he will simply STOP fighting. No anger. No walking away. No bickering. The epitome of a man who has given up is a quiet man. He needs to know someone is fighting WITH him, not AGAINST him. He wants to know someone is FOR him. Or else it’s not worth the fight. 👉As always, link to coaching below ❤️ Elise https://buff.ly/4bZeFnD #mensmentalhealth #mensmentalhealthawareness #mensmentalhealthmatters #menmatter #toxicrelationships #healthyrelationships #relationshiptips #fathersmatter #traumahealing

#resilience #woman #women #archetypes #archetype #nurturer #nurturance #Relationship #relationships #petercrone #provider #safespace #holdingspace FamilyFirst
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$Building or maintaining a relationship with an alienated child who has made false accusations against you is one of the most challenging aspects of parental alienation. It is deeply painful to hear your child say things that you know are untrue, especially when those accusations damage the trust and bond you once shared. The path forward requires incredible strength, patience, and resilience. It’s important to remember that these accusations are not coming from your child’s authentic self. Children in situations of parental alienation are often under immense pressure to conform to the alienating parent’s narrative. They may feel coerced, fearful, and/or confused, and as challenging as it is for us/the alienated parent to understand, repeating these falsehoods can be their way of surviving within that dynamic. It is compared to Stockholm syndrome for good reason. Recognising this can help you separate your child from the behaviour, understanding that their words are a reflection of the manipulation they are experiencing rather than an expression of their true thoughts or feelings. Rebuilding trust starts with showing unconditional love, even when it feels undeserved. It can be helpful to avoid reacting with anger or defensiveness when faced with false accusations. Again, I know this is not easy! (Even as a life coach, I’m guilty of reacting in anger when very provoked/accused of falsehoods and threatened with violence.) Do all you can to respond calmly and kindly, emphasising your love for them and your willingness to listen without judgment. For example, you might say, “I understand that this is how you see things right now, and I’m sorry you feel that way. I love you no matter what.” Such responses demonstrate that you are a safe, steady presence in their life, even when the relationship feels unjustly, painfully fractured. Trust can feel like a two-way street, but in cases of parental alienation, it’s often one-sided for a time. While you extend trust and love to your child, it’s also essential to protect yourself emotionally. It’s sometimes a good idea to keep a record of interactions and communication, not to use against your ... (cont'd in comments) charliemccready1's profile picture charliemccready1 9 h (cont'd) ... child, but to safeguard your own well-being and ensure clarity about what has been said or done. Target parents get gaslighted and manipulated, especially when we’re so emotionally drained. Maintaining realistic expectations is also key; rebuilding the relationship may take months - even years. Some parents, including myself for a time, face the unbearable reality of no contact or communication with their alienated child. When your child refuses to see you, doesn’t respond to messages, or seems unreachable, it can feel as though they’ve slipped through your fingers. I know how isolating and heart-wrenching it can be. The questions of “How did it come to this?” and “What more could I have done?” can consume you. In those moments, it’s easy to feel hopeless. They may not show it, they may not acknowledge it, but somewhere deep down, they know you’re there, and you love them. This is what many previously alienated children have said was something like a lifeline. Social media, for instance, might be one of the few ways they can see you—so present yourself as a person who is calm, loving, and thriving. Avoid posts that reflect your grief or anger, even though those feelings are valid. Over time, your steady presence and resilience may plant seeds of doubt about the alienating narrative and leave the door open for reconnection. For 1:1 coaching, please DM me for more info, and we can have a chat about how it might help you as I have helped hundreds of others. #charliemccready #parentalalienationcoach #highconflictcoparenting #traumabonding #parentalalienation #mothersmatter #FathersMatterToo #FathersMatter #FamilyCourt #narcissisticparent #custody #mothersrights #FathersRights #childcustody #custodybattle$

Building or maintaining a relationship with an alienated child who has made false accusations against you is one of the most challenging aspects of parental alienation. It is deeply painful to hear your child say things that you know are untrue, especially when those accusations damage the trust and bond you once shared. The path forward requires incredible strength, patience, and resilience. It’s important to remember that these accusations are not coming from your child’s authentic self. Children in situations of parental alienation are often under immense pressure to conform to the alienating parent’s narrative. They may feel coerced, fearful, and/or confused, and as challenging as it is for us/the alienated parent to understand, repeating these falsehoods can be their way of surviving within that dynamic. It is compared to Stockholm syndrome for good reason. Recognising this can help you separate your child from the behaviour, understanding that their words are a reflection of the manipulation they are experiencing rather than an expression of their true thoughts or feelings. Rebuilding trust starts with showing unconditional love, even when it feels undeserved. It can be helpful to avoid reacting with anger or defensiveness when faced with false accusations. Again, I know this is not easy! (Even as a life coach, I’m guilty of reacting in anger when very provoked/accused of falsehoods and threatened with violence.) Do all you can to respond calmly and kindly, emphasising your love for them and your willingness to listen without judgment. For example, you might say, “I understand that this is how you see things right now, and I’m sorry you feel that way. I love you no matter what.” Such responses demonstrate that you are a safe, steady presence in their life, even when the relationship feels unjustly, painfully fractured. Trust can feel like a two-way street, but in cases of parental alienation, it’s often one-sided for a time. While you extend trust and love to your child, it’s also essential to protect yourself emotionally. It’s sometimes a good idea to keep a record of interactions and communication, not to use against your ... (cont'd in comments) charliemccready1's profile picture charliemccready1 9 h (cont'd) ... child, but to safeguard your own well-being and ensure clarity about what has been said or done. Target parents get gaslighted and manipulated, especially when we’re so emotionally drained. Maintaining realistic expectations is also key; rebuilding the relationship may take months - even years. Some parents, including myself for a time, face the unbearable reality of no contact or communication with their alienated child. When your child refuses to see you, doesn’t respond to messages, or seems unreachable, it can feel as though they’ve slipped through your fingers. I know how isolating and heart-wrenching it can be. The questions of “How did it come to this?” and “What more could I have done?” can consume you. In those moments, it’s easy to feel hopeless. They may not show it, they may not acknowledge it, but somewhere deep down, they know you’re there, and you love them. This is what many previously alienated children have said was something like a lifeline. Social media, for instance, might be one of the few ways they can see you—so present yourself as a person who is calm, loving, and thriving. Avoid posts that reflect your grief or anger, even though those feelings are valid. Over time, your steady presence and resilience may plant seeds of doubt about the alienating narrative and leave the door open for reconnection. For 1:1 coaching, please DM me for more info, and we can have a chat about how it might help you as I have helped hundreds of others. #charliemccready #parentalalienationcoach #highconflictcoparenting #traumabonding #parentalalienation #mothersmatter #FathersMatterToo #FathersMatter #FamilyCourt #narcissisticparent #custody #mothersrights #FathersRights #childcustody #custodybattle

#outlaw_vicla_cultura #chicano_outlaw #ogviclasledds #nofacenocase #nofear #fastlanemafia #viclas #justride #viclas #viclero #windtherapy #bikertiktok #bikerlife #goodtimesonly #fyp #bikers #norcal #noregrets #cheatdeath #cheatdeathdairy #chalefoo #orale #vatoloco #foryoupage #harleydavidson #indianmotorcycles #fathersmatter #taekwondo

#fathersrights #fathersmatter #fathersareimportant #dadsoftiktok #traumatok #menmatter #mra #domesticviolencesurvivor #domesticviolence

#fathersrights #fathersmatter #fathersareimportant #dadsoftiktok #traumatok #menmatter #mra #domesticviolencesurvivor #domesticviolence

...and clearly she doesn't take me serious at all. #thebaltimoresnakeman #girldad #deadhomie #fathersmatter

...and clearly she doesn't take me serious at all. #thebaltimoresnakeman #girldad #deadhomie #fathersmatter

$Many of us stayed in abusive relationships longer than we should have, trying to protect our children from what we feared might come. We worried that separation or divorce would be hard, but we never fully anticipated the hell our ex would create—turning our children against us, manipulating them, and leaving us feeling like they were kidnapped in plain sight.⁠ ⁠ It’s a form of emotional abuse that often flies under the radar, and because it’s so misunderstood, it leaves us feeling isolated, blamed, and ashamed. The stereotype of abusive fathers hiding behind claims of parental alienation has clouded the reality of what’s really happening. It’s not just fathers. It happens to mothers, too. In fact, many, many mothers experience this heartbreaking situation, and because it’s so often misdiagnosed and misunderstood—even by professionals—we’re all – mothers, fathers, grandparents, and step-parents - left feeling unheard and unsupported.⁠ ⁠ The alienating parent often plays the victim. They manipulate the situation, aligning the children with them, while portraying themselves as the one who has been wronged. It’s a cruel reversal that leaves us, the targeted parent, labelled as the problem. Our children, who don’t understand what’s happening, get caught up in this web of deceit. And what’s worse, society doesn’t understand it either. Too many who don’t understand coercive control, cognitive dissonance and attachment disorders, think we’re at fault for the fractured relationships with our children. It’s devastating when, even the professionals who should be helping us don’t always recognise what’s happening. Misdiagnosis is common. This is the reality of parental alienation—it’s a form of abuse that remains largely invisible to the outside world, even though we live it every day. ⁠ ⁠ But there is hope. Parental alienation is slowly gaining the recognition it deserves, backed by decades of peer-reviewed research. While the naysayers, in response, become more vicious, launching personal attacks on those working to help those who suffer, their resistance only shows that awareness is growing. And alienated children can break free of the lies. As they get older, they often begin to see through the manipulation and resolve the cognitive dissonance they’ve been living with. The love they once had for us doesn’t vanish, and with time, reflection, and our consistent love, many find their way back. #charliemccready #parentalalienationcoach #highconflictcoparenting #alienatedparent #narcissisticabuseawareness #mothersmatter #mothersrights #FathersMatter #fathersrights #traumabonding #parentalalienationawareness #parentalalienation #FamilyCourt #divorced$

Many of us stayed in abusive relationships longer than we should have, trying to protect our children from what we feared might come. We worried that separation or divorce would be hard, but we never fully anticipated the hell our ex would create—turning our children against us, manipulating them, and leaving us feeling like they were kidnapped in plain sight.⁠ ⁠ It’s a form of emotional abuse that often flies under the radar, and because it’s so misunderstood, it leaves us feeling isolated, blamed, and ashamed. The stereotype of abusive fathers hiding behind claims of parental alienation has clouded the reality of what’s really happening. It’s not just fathers. It happens to mothers, too. In fact, many, many mothers experience this heartbreaking situation, and because it’s so often misdiagnosed and misunderstood—even by professionals—we’re all – mothers, fathers, grandparents, and step-parents - left feeling unheard and unsupported.⁠ ⁠ The alienating parent often plays the victim. They manipulate the situation, aligning the children with them, while portraying themselves as the one who has been wronged. It’s a cruel reversal that leaves us, the targeted parent, labelled as the problem. Our children, who don’t understand what’s happening, get caught up in this web of deceit. And what’s worse, society doesn’t understand it either. Too many who don’t understand coercive control, cognitive dissonance and attachment disorders, think we’re at fault for the fractured relationships with our children. It’s devastating when, even the professionals who should be helping us don’t always recognise what’s happening. Misdiagnosis is common. This is the reality of parental alienation—it’s a form of abuse that remains largely invisible to the outside world, even though we live it every day. ⁠ ⁠ But there is hope. Parental alienation is slowly gaining the recognition it deserves, backed by decades of peer-reviewed research. While the naysayers, in response, become more vicious, launching personal attacks on those working to help those who suffer, their resistance only shows that awareness is growing. And alienated children can break free of the lies. As they get older, they often begin to see through the manipulation and resolve the cognitive dissonance they’ve been living with. The love they once had for us doesn’t vanish, and with time, reflection, and our consistent love, many find their way back. #charliemccready #parentalalienationcoach #highconflictcoparenting #alienatedparent #narcissisticabuseawareness #mothersmatter #mothersrights #FathersMatter #fathersrights #traumabonding #parentalalienationawareness #parentalalienation #FamilyCourt #divorced

#fathersmatter #menmattertoo #menmatter #feminist #feminism #mensmentalhealthmatter #boys #parentsofboys #dads #dadsoftiktok #fathersrights #educators #educatorsoftiktok #mensmentalhealth #mra

#fathersmatter #menmattertoo #menmatter #feminist #feminism #mensmentalhealthmatter #boys #parentsofboys #dads #dadsoftiktok #fathersrights #educators #educatorsoftiktok #mensmentalhealth #mra

Always be my baby... #youllalwaysbeapartofme #alwaysbemybaby #thebaltimoresnakeman #fathersmatter #fatherson

Always be my baby... #youllalwaysbeapartofme #alwaysbemybaby #thebaltimoresnakeman #fathersmatter #fatherson

A true daddy’s boy #fathersmatter #dad #father #daddysboy #Love #fyp #howtogoviral #NC #winstonsalem

A true daddy’s boy #fathersmatter #dad #father #daddysboy #Love #fyp #howtogoviral #NC #winstonsalem

#educatorsoftiktok #educators #fathersrights #dadsoftiktok #dads #parentsofboys #boys #mensmentalhealthmatter #feminism #feminist #menmatter #menmattertoo #fathersmatter

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#fathersmatter#fathersrightsmovement #dadsmatter #mikeystrong #parentalalienation

#fathersmatter #fathersrightsmovement #dadsmatter #mikeystrong #parentalalienation

#duet with @🇧🇸242Ivens509🇭🇹 #fyp I WANT TO TAKE A MOMENT TO THANK EVERY STEPFATHER! #stepfather #fathersmatter #stepdadsoftiktok #stepdad #father #maryandjosephvibes #maryandjoseph

#duet with @🇧🇸242Ivens509🇭🇹 #fyp I WANT TO TAKE A MOMENT TO THANK EVERY STEPFATHER! #stepfather #fathersmatter #stepdadsoftiktok #stepdad #father #maryandjosephvibes #maryandjoseph

Time is precious, enjoy the moments and make memories with your kids #father #bestdad #dadandson #fathersmatter

Time is precious, enjoy the moments and make memories with your kids #father #bestdad #dadandson #fathersmatter

My babies ❤️ Y’all don’t understand how much being a dad means to somebody who never had one. #fathersmatter #fatherdaughter #fatherson #fatherslove

My babies ❤️ Y’all don’t understand how much being a dad means to somebody who never had one. #fathersmatter #fatherdaughter #fatherson #fatherslove

Withholding information is a manipulative and cruel tactic used by an alienating parent to create a sense of distance and indifference between the target parent and the children. I'll give an example. In court, my ex challenged me to give one of my child's A'level results to make me look uncaring and uninvolved. Unfortunately, this information had not been shared with me. Sadly. I had, many times, tried to find out. I was financially supportive and wanted to be supportive in other ways too. No information would have been forthcoming from my ex, but my daughter didn't tell me either. This sometimes continues today due to so many years of aiming to punish me by not including me in their lives. At this point, I'm glad to say it's more habitual, and we've got through the worst of the alienation. But by deliberately withholding significant things such as moving house, school results, buying a dog, travelling, illness, celebrations, mishaps, and any important events, whether this is directly from the children themselves or from the alienating parent, the aim is to make the target parent appear uncaring and disengaged. It is, as I said earlier, also to punish them. It is a form of triangulation. That is to 'divide and conquer' and control communication. It causes emotional distress to those involved. We are deprived of the opportunity to maintain a healthy and loving relationship. It perpetuates the cycle of alienation and deepens the emotional trauma experienced by all involved parties, making reconciliation and healing more challenging. But it doesn't have to last forever. It doesn't have to be like this. The alienating parent will often be seen in their true colours when the children mature when they start asking questions, and in many other instances. #charliemccready #parentalalienationcoach #childpsychologicalabuse #coercivecontrol #mothersmatter #FathersMatter #parentalalienation #FamilyCourt #fathersrights #mothersrights #CustodyBattle #divorced #CustodyBattle #narcissisticabuseawareness #narcissisticparent #parentalalienationawareness

Withholding information is a manipulative and cruel tactic used by an alienating parent to create a sense of distance and indifference between the target parent and the children. I'll give an example. In court, my ex challenged me to give one of my child's A'level results to make me look uncaring and uninvolved. Unfortunately, this information had not been shared with me. Sadly. I had, many times, tried to find out. I was financially supportive and wanted to be supportive in other ways too. No information would have been forthcoming from my ex, but my daughter didn't tell me either. This sometimes continues today due to so many years of aiming to punish me by not including me in their lives. At this point, I'm glad to say it's more habitual, and we've got through the worst of the alienation. But by deliberately withholding significant things such as moving house, school results, buying a dog, travelling, illness, celebrations, mishaps, and any important events, whether this is directly from the children themselves or from the alienating parent, the aim is to make the target parent appear uncaring and disengaged. It is, as I said earlier, also to punish them. It is a form of triangulation. That is to 'divide and conquer' and control communication. It causes emotional distress to those involved. We are deprived of the opportunity to maintain a healthy and loving relationship. It perpetuates the cycle of alienation and deepens the emotional trauma experienced by all involved parties, making reconciliation and healing more challenging. But it doesn't have to last forever. It doesn't have to be like this. The alienating parent will often be seen in their true colours when the children mature when they start asking questions, and in many other instances. #charliemccready #parentalalienationcoach #childpsychologicalabuse #coercivecontrol #mothersmatter #FathersMatter #parentalalienation #FamilyCourt #fathersrights #mothersrights #CustodyBattle #divorced #CustodyBattle #narcissisticabuseawareness #narcissisticparent #parentalalienationawareness

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