When does ‘my baby is in the NICU’ become postpartum depression (PPD)? This is a question many NICU parents wrestle with, and as both a NICU doctor and mom, I understand how overwhelming this journey can be. The emotional toll of the NICU is intense, and it’s common to feel stressed, anxious, or even grieve unmet expectations. But when those feelings start to interfere with your ability to function—like persistent sadness, detachment, or hopelessness—it might be more than NICU stress. Ask yourself: 1️⃣ Am I feeling persistently sad or hopeless, even when my baby is improving? 2️⃣ Am I struggling with basic self-care? 3️⃣ Do I feel disconnected from my baby or loved ones? 4️⃣ Are guilt or shame overwhelming me? If you said “yes” to any of these, please know it’s not a reflection of your parenting. It’s a sign that you deserve support—right now. Reach out to your provider or NICU team for help, and explore resources like Hand to Hold or Postpartum Support International. You’re not alone, and there’s no shame in asking for help. Taking care of YOU is one of the best ways to care for your baby. 💚
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