“Life After ‘Me Before You’” When Me Before You came out, I remember feeling a gut punch. As a quadriplegic on a ventilator, I know firsthand the challenges that come with living with a spinal cord injury. I’ve faced the darkest moments—the kind where giving up feels like the only option. I’d be lying if I said I never questioned whether I could keep going. But the message of that movie, the idea that life with a disability isn’t worth living, cut deeper than any of my personal struggles. It painted a picture of a life like mine as one of pity, of being a burden, and ultimately of being “less than.” That’s not the life I know, and it’s certainly not the life I’ve built for myself. Yes, my life comes with challenges most people can’t imagine, but it’s also rich with purpose, love, and meaning. I’ve learned that purpose doesn’t disappear because of a disability—it transforms. It evolves. And it’s there, waiting for us to embrace it, even on the hardest days. The truth is, my life is beautiful—not because it’s easy, but because I’ve found strength in the struggle. I’ve discovered the power of gratitude, resilience, and showing up as my true self. And I believe with every fiber of my being that every single one of us has a purpose, no matter what we’re facing. Disability doesn’t take away our humanity. It doesn’t strip us of joy, love, or the ability to make an impact in this world. If anything, it gives us a perspective and strength that can inspire others. So if you’ve seen Me Before You and wondered, “Is that what life with a disability is like?” let me tell you: it’s not. Life with a spinal cord injury isn’t about giving up—it’s about fighting through, finding purpose, and embracing the beauty that still exists in every moment. We are more than our struggles. We are more than our injuries. And we are enough. How do you all feel about the movie “Me Before You”?
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