If you took us back in time to our first days as parents, we wouldn’t even recognize ourselves. Back then, we were in full-on survival mode—the true trenches of early parenthood. We were just getting by, and honestly, we didn’t know how much being parents would test our relationship. Let’s be real: anyone who says they’ve never found themselves in the “roommate phase” as parents is probably lying. It’s a phase that sneaks up on all of us, especially when the demands of raising babies, toddlers, and little kids feel never-ending. And honestly? It’s normal. It’s part of the journey. What’s key is recognizing when you’re in that phase—and being intentional about climbing out of it. My husband and I have been there (more than once!), and we’ve made it a priority to rebuild our connection every time. Because while it’s okay to find yourself in the roommate phase, staying there for too long isn’t the goal. We’ve worked hard to move from surviving parenthood to thriving in parenthood . Putting each other first—yes, even over the kids—has been a game-changer for us. Because let’s face it: one day, the kids will grow up and leave the house. When that happens, we want to be left with a relationship that’s still alive and full of love, not one that feels like strangers sharing a space. So, if you’re in that season right now, please know you’re not alone—and it won’t last forever. Give yourself grace, acknowledge where you are, and take small steps to reconnect. You’re doing an amazing job. Have you ever found yourself in the roommate phase? Let’s talk about it below—because we’ve ALL been there. Share this with your partner or a parent who needs this reminder today 🫶🏽
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