I would think that I would never get over it. That I would always have this deep seated pain after her. I didn’t know if I would ever be able to recover… but after staying busy on the grind, focusing on myself, I went from being sad, depressed every day to slowly building a smile on my face again. Went from shedding tears of sadness to shedding tears of laughter, of joy with family & friends. The trick for me was to stay busy on the grind. Focus on people who actually cared about me… family, friends, and most of all, God. I used to think about the pain every single day but as I self-improved, I realized a day went by where I didn’t think about the pain she caused me, then a couple days went by, then a whole week went by and I haven’t thought about it. That’s when I realized it really does start to get better. That hole in my heart from the pain started to be filled with my grind, family, friends, and God’s love. I thought she was my source of happiness but really it was the other way around. I’M my OWN source of happiness and I had to realize it does get easier as time goes on. Of course I’ll still think about it from time to time but the pain of it slowly fades and then… you know you’re getting stronger. ❤️🩹💯
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