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#SexlessMarriage explores topics like intimacy challenges, emotional disconnect, communication struggles, relationship advice, personal stories, societal pressures, coping strategies, longing for connection, rekindling passion, and navigating love without physical intimacy.
I used to treat everyone else, better than my wife.  When I realized, if I came at my employees, or friends, like I did to my wife….   I would have no one in my life.   Your wife is your number one.  I show you how to save any struggling, sexless and toxic marriage in my book:  Disrupting Divorce  Search Amazon for your copy of Disrupting Divorce  #DisruptingDivorce #toxicrelationships #sexlessmarriage #masculine #dadlife
I show you how to move out of the past.  Rebuilding trust, safety and peace.  Only then can you rebuild true partnership and restore passion and intimacy on all levels.  Peace, Partnership and Passion in DISRUPTING DIVORCE  Saving Struggling, Sexless and Toxic Marriages.   Search Amazon for Disrupting Divorce #DisruptingDivorce #toxicrelationships #sexlessmarriage #masculine #dadlife
I don’t speak to too many men anymore, who just want more sex.  Men are losing their wives every day and they are catching on.  Learning to be a man beyond physical needs and societal norms is a new act for men.  A balance between when we need as a man physically, and emotionally as well.    See, men want a lot of what women want.  A lot of what women need too.  It’s so much easier to have each others wants and needs met, when we start by going down to the basics.  Intimacy on all levels.  I go much deeper in my book:  DISRUPTING DIVORCE. Saving Struggling, Sexless and Toxic Marriages.  Get your copy on Amazon; search Disrupting Divorce.  #DisruptingDivorce #toxicrelationships #sexlessmarriage #masculine #dadlife
You should want more than a warm place to do your thing.   You should want safety, trust and true partnership.  Conversations and fun.   When life throws challenges, teamwork through and conversations.   Maintains peace, through those conversations.  Affection and intimacy on all levels.  You want your wife to at least desire to connect with Sex.  But it should never end there.  She needs to desire you.  Learn how to save your struggling, sexless and toxic marriage in my book:  DISRUPTING DIVORCE   Available on Amazon at https://a.co/d/31vm4bV  #DisruptingDivorce #toxicrelationships #sexlessmarriage #masculine #dadlife
Most men aren’t great Dads.  They think taking care of the kids today, is enough.  Providing a roof, day to day play, the stern hand when needed….    Your kids are growing up in a world where young adults have already decided they don’t want to get married.   Allowed I make choices at 5 or 8 yard old, most adults shouldn’t take till they’re 30.  Still using school to teach them.  Did you learn anything important in school?   Communication, finances, real sexual education, leadership. Have you prepared for where your children will live when they grow up?   They’re not going to be able to buy a house.  Great dads care about the children they’re raising, the adults they’ll be and the world they’ll live in.  #DisruptingDivorce #toxicrelationships #sexlessmarriage #masculine #dadlife
My wife coined the term, Nice Assholes.  Today, a Nice Guy is labeled a Simp or a Cuck.   You need to learn to give without expectations.   You’ve got to stop giving to get.   Or eventually, you feel like you’re the only one trying.   You love her more than she loves you.   After keeping score for a while, you hate feeling like you’re not good enough.  So you shutdown, until you lash out.  Defending yourself and blaming or attacking her.  Shaming her and guilting her.   Until you love her again and repeat the cycle.   Nice Asshole.  Go to https://go.morrowmarriage.com and get the training for FREE #DisruptingDivorce #toxicrelationships #sexlessmarriage #masculine #dadlife
The Cascade of Betrayal.  This really goes both ways.  When someone is cheated on, 23 things happen before the affair.  I created the Tailspin Towards Betrayal.  40 things happens before the extreme disrespect:  Physical abuse, Affairs, Divorce Papers….   It’s a vicious cycle that repeats until you can’t believe how they could disrespect you so deeply.   #DisruptingDivorce #toxicrelationships #sexlessmarriage #masculine #dadlife
Emotionally, physically and in the bedroom. Men wait for rock bottom to make REAL changes. I was no exception. I was charged with assault and given a restraining order. One mistake, and I was going to jail. So I began to make changes. Like most men, I replaced the negative, "bad" behavior, with neutral. Meaning, it's normal, not to yell, throw shit, trash the house or hurt your wife.  But we're not special, providing baseline normal in our marriage. Often, providing other "bad" behaviors instead: Shutting down, hiding from rejection. Sucking up, begging for forgiveness and throwing blind apologies. Asking her how to fix everything. Looking up to "Mommy" for guidance. After years of neutral... I made a move on Kathryn. She rejected me, saying, "I'm not attracted, not in love, and I'm settling." "You're repulsive." The real rock bottom. I was forced to look at the reflection in the mirror that KATHRYN SAW. I wanted her, she didn't want me: SHE was more desirable.  I thought about quitting. But then I clicked.  If my changes weren't real for her, what could I DO differently? I learned to flip triggers and pain to positive energy and joy. I flipped defensiveness to patience and understanding. I turned, talking myself up to "prove" I was a great man, to TRULY BECOMING a man I liked seeing in the mirror. I stopped depending on Kathryn to feel worthy and good enough, and found my true identity. Beyond an abusive asshole.  I felt pride and left shame behind.   So it didn't hurt me when Kathryn didn't believe in me. I watched as new levels of safety, for her, unlocked new levels of intimacy in our marriage. Now, we're best friends, partners, lovers and a true superpower couple. And we laugh about the old guy. Even if the old you ruined everything, you need to know the new you. Be patient and consistent while she gets to know the new you, too. I lay out the step x step I took in my book: DISRUPTING DIVORCE Saving Struggling, Sexless and Toxic Marriages. Get your copy on Amazon by searching Disrupting Divorce.  #DisruptingDivorce #toxicrelationships #sexlessmarriage #masculine #dadlife
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Emotionally, physically and in the bedroom. Men wait for rock bottom to make REAL changes. I was no exception. I was charged with assault and given a restraining order. One mistake, and I was going to jail. So I began to make changes. Like most men, I replaced the negative, "bad" behavior, with neutral. Meaning, it's normal, not to yell, throw shit, trash the house or hurt your wife. But we're not special, providing baseline normal in our marriage. Often, providing other "bad" behaviors instead: Shutting down, hiding from rejection. Sucking up, begging for forgiveness and throwing blind apologies. Asking her how to fix everything. Looking up to "Mommy" for guidance. After years of neutral... I made a move on Kathryn. She rejected me, saying, "I'm not attracted, not in love, and I'm settling." "You're repulsive." The real rock bottom. I was forced to look at the reflection in the mirror that KATHRYN SAW. I wanted her, she didn't want me: SHE was more desirable. I thought about quitting. But then I clicked. If my changes weren't real for her, what could I DO differently? I learned to flip triggers and pain to positive energy and joy. I flipped defensiveness to patience and understanding. I turned, talking myself up to "prove" I was a great man, to TRULY BECOMING a man I liked seeing in the mirror. I stopped depending on Kathryn to feel worthy and good enough, and found my true identity. Beyond an abusive asshole. I felt pride and left shame behind. So it didn't hurt me when Kathryn didn't believe in me. I watched as new levels of safety, for her, unlocked new levels of intimacy in our marriage. Now, we're best friends, partners, lovers and a true superpower couple. And we laugh about the old guy. Even if the old you ruined everything, you need to know the new you. Be patient and consistent while she gets to know the new you, too. I lay out the step x step I took in my book: DISRUPTING DIVORCE Saving Struggling, Sexless and Toxic Marriages. Get your copy on Amazon by searching Disrupting Divorce. #DisruptingDivorce #toxicrelationships #sexlessmarriage #masculine #dadlife
Insecurity takes over when your wife rejects you.   It’s like a monster that grips you.  Especially when she’s looking at you grossed out when you do flirt.  Or like my wife used to be, repulsed by you.   Especially if she thinks, you only care about sex.   The monster gets your mind racing in a million directions.  Why doesn’t she want me?   If not me, then who?   What’s so funny in her phone?   Why’s she wearing this underwear?   Why does she have more fun with her friends?   The kids are more important than me.  Why am I not good enough?   Eventually you ask — or tell her these things.   Defend yourself and why you’re so great.   Why she should want you.  Attack her character because she doesn’t try as hard as you.   Love you as much as you love her.   And you tailspin into your sexless marriage.  Becoming roommates or enemies.  I show you exactly how I saved my abusive, struggling, sexless and toxic marriage in my book:   DISRUPTING DIVORCE  Search Amazon for Disrupting Divorces  #DisruptingDivorce #toxicrelationships #sexlessmarriage #masculine #dadlife
You don’t realize how quickly you can become the new man.   Most programs preach a saved marriage in 90 days or less.   That’s horseshit.   YOU become the new man in 90 days or less.   YOU CREATE a life so valuable, your wife would be crazy to stay in the past.   YOU invite her into your new marriage.  And YOU might have to be patient.   You don’t get to decide how much the pain, wounds and trauma affect her.   Embrace the journey to Super Power Couple.   It’s all in my book: DISRUPTING DIVORCE.   Saving Struggling, Sexless and Toxic Marriages.   Available on Amazon. Search Disrupting Divorce.  #DisruptingDivorce #toxicrelationships #sexlessmarriage #masculine #dadlife
When you have no idea how to prioritize your wife.  You will lose her.   The thing is, by the time you start to prioritize her (for real)….   You’ve spent so many years defending yourself and why you had to work so hard.   At times, you showed up but you weren’t present. Really.   Usually to get affirmation or validation from her.   Especially your need for sex.  You spend so much time wondering why people around you like, love, respect and value you….   You don’t see why your wife doesn’t feel the same.  In all your success, you created a life for yourself.  It wasn’t for her.  It was to prove something to yourself.   You don’t just get to buy your wife.  I show you how to get her checked back in, step by step in my book:  Disrupting Divorce.   Saving Struggling, Sexless and Toxic Marriages.  Amazon is the easiest place to get your copy. Search the title: Disrupting Divorce  #DisruptingDivorce #toxicrelationships #sexlessmarriage #masculine #dadlife
If you’re so great, why could I save my marriage from the depths of Hell….  Broke….  Dad bod….   And now we’re in 103 countries with our podcast.   Selling books like crazy.   5000 couples with our courses and coaching.   And most importantly….   Living the new marriage.   I don’t charge a lot of money to save your marriage.   I sell freedom.   MorrowMarriage.com  Go Get Your Life.  #DisruptingDivorce #toxicrelationships #sexlessmarriage #masculine #dadlife
By the time men figure this out….   It’s basically sexless.   Clinically, that’s 6 months or more without sex.   I’ll teach you, it’s when your wife is just checking sex off the to-do list.  That’s not sex.  Not intimacy.   I show you how to save your struggling, sexless and toxic marriage in my book:   DISRUPTING DIVORCE   Available on Amazon if you search the title:   Disrupting Divorce.  #DisruptingDivorce #toxicrelationships #sexlessmarriage #masculine #dadlife
This is what gets you the grossed out look when you comment. Or flirt.  Touch her shoulder or back.  Just want a kiss or a hug.  It’s why she doesn’t want to go on dates with you.  She knows where all of this will lead.  And she doesn’t want the next level.   So she shuts you down at whatever level she not comfortable passing.  You need to climb my Rejection Ladder.  I show you the ladder and the how to, in my book:  DISRUPTING DIVORCE Saving Struggling, Sexless and Toxic Marriages.  Get your copy on Amazon by searching: DISRUPTING DIVORCE #DisruptingDivorce #toxicrelationships #sexlessmarriage #masculine #dadlife
I used to think money is what made a man.   Don’t get me wrong, we need to be mad providers.   But when you realize, you’re not successful, just because you make money.   You can focus on what you can’t.  And get so good at it, you can become the man your wife and kids need.  #DisruptingDivorce #toxicrelationships #sexlessmarriage #masculine #dadlife
It makes sense to hire business coaches.  It makes no sense to gamble on your marriage.  Men don’t hire relationship coaches until things are real bad with their wife.  They think, money (or working hard), is enough.  How can you be so smart in business, and too stupid to pay attention to the divorces around you.  I get the worst of the worst, because of my story and how bad of a man I was towards my wife.  Abuse, narcissism, affairs, divorce papers.  Nearly no men have actually looked for real help by the time they come to me.  You need to wake up.   #DisruptingDivorce #toxicrelationships #sexlessmarriage #masculine #dadlife
Most men are nowhere near as confident at home.   In the real world, especially successful businessmen and entrepreneurs….   Lit up.   To the outside world, your marriage looks great on paper.   Your “life” is envied.   And it eats away at you.   I was like you. A seven figure earner and losing it all.   So I got to work.   Broke, wife repulsed by me, I had to rebuild.   I show you how in my book:    DISRUPTING DIVORCE   Saving Struggling, Sexless and Toxic Marriages.   Search Amazon for Disrupting Divorce   #DisruptingDivorce #toxicrelationships #sexlessmarriage #masculine #dadlife
The clinical definition of a sexless marriage:  6 months or more without sex.  I define it differently:  When your wife is checking sex off the to-do list.  Doing it to manage your emotions:  Doing it out of pity because she doesn’t want to deal with your pouting or frustrations.  Or worse, fear, because she’s afraid you’ll get angry again.  I show you how to get your wife back on the saddle in my book:  DISRUPTING DIVORCE  Saving Struggling, Sexless and Toxic Marriages.  The simplest way to get your copy is on Amazon.  Search: Disrupting Divorce  #DisruptingDivorce #toxicrelationships #sexlessmarriage #masculine #dadlife
This Is Why Your Marriage Sucks When I ask you, what's the biggest struggle you have, what comes to mind? EVERYONE says something like: My partner is doing XYZ.  This (thing) happened, and we can't get through it. We can't (communicate, control our emotions, we don't have sex)... You can't win because you're struggling with the WRONG thing. You're FOCUSED on symptoms and pain. YOU NEED TO FOCUS ON THE TOOLS OR SYSTEMS YOU ARE USING. What strategies, or use of the tools and systems, are you STRUGGLING WITH? After 5000 couples in 3 years, it doesn't matter if it's a man or woman in the DM's. On my platform, or in the community. As soon as you're asked, "What's the biggest struggle you face right now?" You immediately move to a problem based answer. Instead of a reflection based answer. HOW COULD I BE SHOWING UP DIFFERENTLY? Using sex as the simplest example:  A man might present his struggle as, "she says I only care about sex". But if he answers my struggle question my way, using my STAT response: He'd first 'Struggle' with the attempt at using the tool and follow the acronym.  So, his wife says, "you only care about sex": S | Structure: Wants more than just sex: wants to be intimately connected on all levels. T | Triggers: He might say in response: "Yeah, I was a douché before!  I was pretty focused on my needs." A | Adventure: If not curiosity, use fun and playfulness.  "What? You think I want sex right now? No no. I'm not even wearing the boxers you like to take off of me." Smiling. T | Trust: Follow through.  (This is his error in this example): He initiates again when they hug.  So I would say, that's not bad.  BUT YOUR STRUGGLE IN USING THE TOOL, was making a second attempt:  When you went in for a hug, said I love you and then went for it again.  Improve while you learn to use your GROWTH. Don't hold yourself back, SITTING IN YOUR PAIN. We offer so many of our tools and systems with our FREE men's and women's communities. If you'd like to stop struggling with going backwards and start moving forward: Go.MorrowMarriage.com #DisruptingDivorce #toxicrelationships #sexlessmarriage #masculine #dadlife
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This Is Why Your Marriage Sucks When I ask you, what's the biggest struggle you have, what comes to mind? EVERYONE says something like: My partner is doing XYZ. This (thing) happened, and we can't get through it. We can't (communicate, control our emotions, we don't have sex)... You can't win because you're struggling with the WRONG thing. You're FOCUSED on symptoms and pain. YOU NEED TO FOCUS ON THE TOOLS OR SYSTEMS YOU ARE USING. What strategies, or use of the tools and systems, are you STRUGGLING WITH? After 5000 couples in 3 years, it doesn't matter if it's a man or woman in the DM's. On my platform, or in the community. As soon as you're asked, "What's the biggest struggle you face right now?" You immediately move to a problem based answer. Instead of a reflection based answer. HOW COULD I BE SHOWING UP DIFFERENTLY? Using sex as the simplest example: A man might present his struggle as, "she says I only care about sex". But if he answers my struggle question my way, using my STAT response: He'd first 'Struggle' with the attempt at using the tool and follow the acronym. So, his wife says, "you only care about sex": S | Structure: Wants more than just sex: wants to be intimately connected on all levels. T | Triggers: He might say in response: "Yeah, I was a douché before! I was pretty focused on my needs." A | Adventure: If not curiosity, use fun and playfulness. "What? You think I want sex right now? No no. I'm not even wearing the boxers you like to take off of me." Smiling. T | Trust: Follow through. (This is his error in this example): He initiates again when they hug. So I would say, that's not bad. BUT YOUR STRUGGLE IN USING THE TOOL, was making a second attempt: When you went in for a hug, said I love you and then went for it again. Improve while you learn to use your GROWTH. Don't hold yourself back, SITTING IN YOUR PAIN. We offer so many of our tools and systems with our FREE men's and women's communities. If you'd like to stop struggling with going backwards and start moving forward: Go.MorrowMarriage.com #DisruptingDivorce #toxicrelationships #sexlessmarriage #masculine #dadlife
The more men I coach, the more I see they’re like I was.   We’re raised to believe providing, protecting and being a dad are enough.   I had to learn how to love.   CONSISTENTLY.   Like me, you need to learn to stop loving hard….    Then pulling back.   Then defending your self or attacking her.   The cycle needs to stop.   I show you step x step in my book.  DISRUPTING DIVORCE  Saving Struggling, Sexless and Toxic Marriages.   Available on Amazon. Search: Disrupting Divorce.  #DisruptingDivorce #toxicrelationships #sexlessmarriage #masculine #dadlife
If you want an extraordinary life….  Then you can’t live it in the ordinary way.   Look around you.   Don’t follow someone broke, if you want to learn to make money.   Ask a bad example of marriage, how to help yours.   #DisruptingDivorce #toxicrelationships #sexlessmarriage #masculine #dadlife

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