Kyra

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#TransCoach promotes support, guidance, and empowerment for transgender individuals exploring their identity. It fosters community, sharing resources, experiences, and advice on transitioning, self-acceptance, mental health, and navigating societal challenges.
One of the biggest myths that we see perpetuated with regard to trans people as this idea that we all die at an average age of 35. Nothing could be further from the truth. So, where did that figure come from and why does it become so popular in mainstream media and amongst trans people themselves? The number comes from the average age of Trans Women murdered in Brazil during a particular time period.  Hardest statistic that we can then extrapolate out to a broader population of people around the world. But, it is a number that became very popular in mainstream media reports about the sad and tragic lives of trans people.  There are a few longitudinal studies on trans mortality which indicate that we might live slightly shorter lives than our sis counterparts. However, Virgina Tumblr. Not least of which is that they rarely ever focus on trans masculine people.  What I do know is that there are plenty of older trans folks out here in the world, just live in their lives. There is absolutely no reason to think that you won’t be one of them. #TransMan #FTM  #FTMTransman #TransMasculine #Transgender  #Trans # 🏳️‍⚧️ #TransVisibility #Lgbtq #🏳️‍🌈#Queer  #TransDaddy #TransElder #ElderTransMan #OlderTransMan #TransDad #TransDadTips #transcoach #personalcoach
Another day, another mass school shooting in the US.  A shooter in Madison, WI, killed & injured a number of people at a private catholic school. The shooter was a 15 year old cis girl who apparently was an internet radicalised white racist ‘radical feminist’ (terf) who was obsessed with school shootings.   While I have a lot to say about the need for gun control in the US, what all focus on today is the reality of the results of anti-trans misinformation & propaganda perpetuated by TERFs and Main Stream Media (MSM). Their seemingly unfettered use of fear-mongering, lies, & demonizing of trans people has led to increasing violence being perpetrated against us.  Lots of us, older folks have lived through times where there were multiple instances of anti-LGBTQ+ violence directed at us. I remember sitting in crowded movie theaters or arenas - with gay performers or with Pride related themes - wondering if today would be the day that a shooter came in or a bomb was set off. Those fears have returned in this current climate. And, what I know to be true, is that the best way for us to respond is to simply survive. And thrive. While we must be conscious of our surroundings, of the people that we interact with, and how to defend ourselves, we cannot and should not give into fear. We exist. And stop. We will not be erased. #TransMan #FTM  #FTMTransman #TransMasculine #Transgender  #Trans # 🏳️‍⚧️ #TransVisibility #Lgbtq #🏳️‍🌈#Queer  #TransDaddy #TransElder #ElderTransMan #OlderTransMan #TransDad #TransDadTips #transcoach #personalcoach #wewontbeerased
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Another day, another mass school shooting in the US. A shooter in Madison, WI, killed & injured a number of people at a private catholic school. The shooter was a 15 year old cis girl who apparently was an internet radicalised white racist ‘radical feminist’ (terf) who was obsessed with school shootings. While I have a lot to say about the need for gun control in the US, what all focus on today is the reality of the results of anti-trans misinformation & propaganda perpetuated by TERFs and Main Stream Media (MSM). Their seemingly unfettered use of fear-mongering, lies, & demonizing of trans people has led to increasing violence being perpetrated against us. Lots of us, older folks have lived through times where there were multiple instances of anti-LGBTQ+ violence directed at us. I remember sitting in crowded movie theaters or arenas - with gay performers or with Pride related themes - wondering if today would be the day that a shooter came in or a bomb was set off. Those fears have returned in this current climate. And, what I know to be true, is that the best way for us to respond is to simply survive. And thrive. While we must be conscious of our surroundings, of the people that we interact with, and how to defend ourselves, we cannot and should not give into fear. We exist. And stop. We will not be erased. #TransMan #FTM #FTMTransman #TransMasculine #Transgender #Trans # 🏳️‍⚧️ #TransVisibility #Lgbtq #🏳️‍🌈#Queer #TransDaddy #TransElder #ElderTransMan #OlderTransMan #TransDad #TransDadTips #transcoach #personalcoach #wewontbeerased
As the year draws to a close, it’s time for trans and non-binary folks to prepare for next year. Step one on your to-do list is to get your legal name change if you haven’t already done so. There are generally easy processes in place for you to do so. Check your local court websites for information on how-to do it, the costs involved, and the forms you’ll need. You may also have local bar groups putting on name change clinics throughout the year if you’d prefer to have someone prepare the paperwork for you.  If you’re short on funds, there is usually an option to seek filing in forma pauperis - it’s essentially a system wherein you request relief from the court in not having to pay filing fees. You’ll likely still have to pay for your certified copies of your court order.  I’ll be doing an online workshop on name and documentation changes in January. It’ll be on my Patreon. Be on the lookout for the announcement!  #TransMan #FTM  #FTMTransman #TransMasculine #Transgender  #Trans # 🏳️‍⚧️ #TransVisibility #Lgbtq #🏳️‍🌈#Queer  #TransDaddy #TransElder #ElderTransMan #OlderTransMan #TransDad #TransDadTips #transcoach #personalcoach #wewontbeerased
Well, this is likely far too serious clip to be making this close to the holidays, but one must respond when necessary. You’ve likely seen that the incoming administration plans on erasing trans people from public life on day one of the implementation of their fascist oligarchic regime. Well that’s horrifying to hear, and hopefully sobering for folks that have told us that we’ve been blowing things out of proportion, it is a call to action. One of the things that is incumbent upon us, our allies and all marginalized groups of people, is that we work together to combat this. Do not, I repeat do not, bend the knee in the hopes that it will save you. It won’t. There are many well-known strategies that can be implemented to resist. Over the next few weeks I’ll be posting a series on things that you can do to protect yourselves and your families. In the meantime, buckle up. it’s going to be a bumpy ride.  way for us to respond is to simply. #TransMan #FTM  #FTMTransman #TransMasculine #Transgender  #Trans # 🏳️‍⚧️ #TransVisibility #Lgbtq #🏳️‍🌈#Queer  #TransDaddy #TransElder #ElderTransMan #OlderTransMan #TransDad #TransDadTips #transcoach #personalcoach #wewontbeerased #Resist
Happy Ho Ho Ho!!! God Jul! I hope the holidays treat you well - whether you celebrate or not.  Give & get as much support as you can.    #TransMan #FTM  #FTMTransman #TransMasculine #Transgender  #Trans # 🏳️‍⚧️ #TransVisibility #Lgbtq #🏳️‍🌈#Queer  #TransDaddy #TransElder #ElderTransMan #OlderTransMan #TransDad #TransDadTips #transcoach #personalcoach #wewontbeerased #Resist  #GodJul #merrychristmas
Trans life expectancy, part 2. As I mentioned previously, the often repeated numbers related to life expectancy or not accurate. In fact, none of the ways in which trans life expectancy is measures have measured up.  lol While there are several studies  that indicate that transgender folks have an increased mortality rate, these studies have not modelled life expectancy nor have they measured mortality correctly. Part of the problem is that they keep measuring trans people against the wrong groups of cisgender people. For example, trans men’s mortality is measured against cis women. That makes absolutely zero sense. The reality is that the qualitative and systematic research needed to calculate the average life expectancy of transgender people has not yet been done. And, any of that longitude oral research would need to be done in different countries, different major cities, all accounting for variables related to length of time on hormones, economic, and other stressors, etc., etc., etc. #TransMan #FTM  #FTMTransman #TransMasculine #Transgender  #Trans # 🏳️‍⚧️ #TransVisibility #Lgbtq #🏳️‍🌈#Queer  #TransDaddy #TransElder #ElderTransMan #OlderTransMan #TransDad #TransDadTips #transcoach #personalcoach #wewontbeerased
I just finished reading James Bennett’s memoir, “Spilling the T”.  James tells his story from his pre-transition discomfort/questioning, through the ups & downs of transition, & of his life post-transition. His storytelling is vulnerable, open, &  engaging. This is an excellent read for anyone wanting to learn more about the lives of trans people.  Every memoir/autobiography adds to the history of trans people & how each of us experiences transition in both similar & unique ways.  Order your copy at https://a.co/d/3QYnNQ8 #TransMan #FTM  #FTMTransman #TransMasculine #Transgender  #Trans # 🏳️‍⚧️ #TransVisibility #Lgbtq #🏳️‍🌈#Queer  #TransDaddy #TransElder #ElderTransMan #OlderTransMan #TransDad #TransDadTips #transcoach #personalcoach #wewontbeerased
Happy New Year!! I wanted to end this year by saying to all of you - THANK YOU!  Thank you for being here, for watching my content, & for engaging with it in positive & supportive ways.  Thank you for you financial assistance this past year. It’s meant a great deal to me on many levels.  I don’t generally make New Years Resolutions but I do have a few intentions for 2025.  1. Make content production, book writing, & coaching my only source of income production to adequately support me & my family.  2. Continue to be an activist on behalf of LGBTQ+ folks around the world.  3. Get better at accepting - and celebrating - my aging body.  I’ll be posting new content about these matters and lots more in the coming weeks.  In the meantime, I wish you a very Happy New Year!! #TransMan #FTM  #FTMTransman #TransMasculine #Transgender  #Trans # 🏳️‍⚧️ #TransVisibility #Lgbtq #🏳️‍🌈#Queer  #TransDaddy #TransElder #ElderTransMan #OlderTransMan #TransDad #TransDadTips #transcoach #personalcoach #wewontbeerased
Big thanks to Sawyer for these lovely gifts to replace some of the things I lost when my car was stolen. I absolutely appreciate your kindness and generosity.  ————— I’m still about $1k short of what I’ll need to replace the stolen car.  If you can help, I’d sure appreciate it.  How you can help me:  1. Hire me for personal coaching or business DEI training (DM me for details); 2. Order a Trans Santa video on Cameo;   3. Subscribe to my Patreon - The Trans Dad; 4. Donate to my GoFundMe; 5. Donate directly at CashApp, Venmo, PayPal, or Zelle (links in bio); 6. Check out my Amazon Wishlist.  #TransMan #FTM #FTMTransman #TransMasculine  #Transgender #Trans #TransVisibility#TransDaddy #OlderTransMan #TransDad #liveauthentically #🏳️‍⚧️#transjoy  #transcoach #Lgbtq #translove  #🏳️‍🌈 #grateful
Look, holiday time can be really hard for LGBTQ folx and not because being LGBTQ is hard. The dehumanizing narratives of LGBTQ people exhaust our energy, time and resources. As those chairs get closer to being pulled in around the table, here’s a little holiday prep….queer style. Reach out for support, coaching, and training on how to live like an ally. (Which is the lifestyle, not LGBTQ identity). #peertopeer #peer #peersupportspecialist #peercoach #transcoach #nonbinarycoach #lgbtqcoach #trans #fyp #grounding #recoverycoach #recovery #wellness

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