the backseat your marriage/relationship takes in the first year of a child’s life is NOT talked about enough!!!! i truly think both of us were entirely rocked by the adjustment of no kids to one child. not to say we fell out of love, but love went from date nights to filling up water cups, or having the energy to ask how the others day was. now the adjustment from 1 to 2.. our entire home being essentially split into two. morgan with the baby, nursing, recovering, co-sleeping, to me with our toddler, fighting naps, big feelings & cutting teeth. i just feel like most people go into this chapter not even remotely prepared for how far of a backseat their relationship will take. i’m talking that b!tch is allll the way in the TRUNK. if you’re feeling more like ships passing in the night, feeling distant… please remember this is all entirely normal. your person is still in there. your love is still there. your focus is just different and that’s okay. and non-birthing parents.. please go easy on moms. they are doing their best. their internal EVERYTHING is still not 100% after a year. i didn’t always take my own advice. i am not perfect.. but trust me when i say, they’re doing their best. go give your baby mama a big kiss and fill her water. 🤍🫧☁️
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