Only a weak-minded, emotionally wounded man would disagree with this. This is not to “bash” men. As a mom to 4 kids, 3 of them boys, I care deeply for the male psyche and overall wellness. I care about ALL. But, we can not ignore the blaring issues if change is to be made. The truth is, that we have a skewed belief of what masculine strength is. We have been falsely taught that a strong-minded masculine is a man who controls emotions to the point of having none, just provides monetarily, protects the home, and sits at the dinner table to be served. No. A healthy-minded masculine is a man who controls UNHEALTHY emotions like aggressive outbursts but expresses emotions healthily as ALL humans should. Gender does not determine someone's emotional compass. A healthy masculine provides stability and for this, I'm not talking about financial stability, I'm focusing on providing stability of safety and security of his partner. Providing an environment of emotional safety, healthy communication, and compassion. A healthy masculine isn't a man who sits at the table waiting to be served with the children, he's a man who actively participates, either stepping in where he knows it's needed or communicating with his partner to see what is needed most at that time. A weak and wounded man will be desperate for control and this need for control will be outwardly shown through his domineering, demanding, and aggressive ways. It is time to break that generational belief. I know it is hard on the men who have been led to believe they are “not enough” unless they fulfill some old ideal of manhood. I'm here to tell you its ok, encouraged and time to be YOU—the healthy man that's always been within you.
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