If 2017 Carys saw how 2025 Carys turned out, she would think we’d failed. I wish I could go back and give her the biggest hug, tell her how happy we are now, tell her how fulfilled we feel, tell her how weight gain didn’t change the love between her and James (who’s now our husband) and how our relationship got stronger and is thriving more than ever. I’d tell her that finding confidence beyond a body shape was the best thing we ever did. I’d tell her that we still love the gym and want to be strong, some days I miss being as strong and fit as 2017 Carys but along the way we found so many other areas of life we love and we make time for those areas now too and it feels good and guilt free. I’d tell her we’ve built a community of the most amazing people online where I feel safe to be myself, unapologetically. and of course I’d tell her we still love putting a cute outfit together and styling oursleves but in a way that now honours our changing body. I’d tell her a body shape no longer controls our daily thoughts. I’d tell her that life is going to get so good and feel so freeing. Keep going 2017 Carys, you’ve got this 🫶🏻✨