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The TikTok hashtag #itsoktotell promotes mental health awareness, encouraging open conversations about emotions, struggles, and experiences. It fosters community support, breaking stigma, and empowering individuals to share their stories safely.
I often discuss my mother in my live streams. However, I’ll post a series of videos over the next few days that answer some of the questions I receive about my mother and her knowledge about what my father was doing to me, our relationship today, and why she wasn’t prosecuted alongside my father. Let me know your thoughts. #HealingJourney #unashamed1 #unashamed #itsoktotell #notalone #qanda #livestream
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I often discuss my mother in my live streams. However, I’ll post a series of videos over the next few days that answer some of the questions I receive about my mother and her knowledge about what my father was doing to me, our relationship today, and why she wasn’t prosecuted alongside my father. Let me know your thoughts. #HealingJourney #unashamed1 #unashamed #itsoktotell #notalone #qanda #livestream
Clearly everyone can’t be lawyers, but it’s extremely beneficial for the general public to have some understanding of the law, justice system and the judicial process. If a survivor decides to report the abuse, the process can often be re-traumatizing because we make basic assumptions about what happens to people who commit crimes. There is so much gray area in law, and the room left for interpretation is intentional. I research and speak on these topics as much as I can to offer clarification and alleviate any surprises for reporting survivors of abuse. I hope this helps. #unashamed1 #HealingJourney #notalone #itsoktotell #howtoreport #survivor #fyp
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Clearly everyone can’t be lawyers, but it’s extremely beneficial for the general public to have some understanding of the law, justice system and the judicial process. If a survivor decides to report the abuse, the process can often be re-traumatizing because we make basic assumptions about what happens to people who commit crimes. There is so much gray area in law, and the room left for interpretation is intentional. I research and speak on these topics as much as I can to offer clarification and alleviate any surprises for reporting survivors of abuse. I hope this helps. #unashamed1 #HealingJourney #notalone #itsoktotell #howtoreport #survivor #fyp
My parents may be the cause of my trauma, but I’m responsible for my healing. #unashamed1 #changeisntmadeincomfortzones #HealingJourney #survivor #questionsandanswers #itsoktotell #fyp
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My parents may be the cause of my trauma, but I’m responsible for my healing. #unashamed1 #changeisntmadeincomfortzones #HealingJourney #survivor #questionsandanswers #itsoktotell #fyp
Blaming victims for their abuse is counterproductive. Though frustrating, I’m fascinated by most people's short-sided immaturity. Unfortunately, when it comes to placing blame, people often blame those they can access. Maybe it has something to do with a need for instant gratification. Or they have fear that in exploring the abuser, they may see traits of themselves. Is it possible that differentiating an abuser from others is difficult because the idea that anyone can be an abuser is too frightening to accept? But the victim, if exposed, is undeniable. And because the incident happened to the victim, we have an easy answer: they must have done something to be victimized. The commenter who is the topic of this video, took it a step further by offering an explanation of why I “allowed” myself to be victimized. My family doesn’t have access to my father. I’m sure to many of them, he’s like a mythical creature, only known through the “outlandish tales” of those who have been his victims. The person they knew wasn’t a sordid rapist pedophile. While they didn’t always agree, my uncles, aunts, and cousins partied, conversed, made music, and happily socialized with my father. So rather than accept they were very comfortable consorting with a demon (whether they knew it or not), I, the victim, must have played some role in making him that way. My point is that this type of thinking is divisive and creates spaces for abusers to hide. Something has to change. #unsahamed1 #notalone #itsoktotell #stockholmesyndrome #MentalHealthAwareness #HealingJourney
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Blaming victims for their abuse is counterproductive. Though frustrating, I’m fascinated by most people's short-sided immaturity. Unfortunately, when it comes to placing blame, people often blame those they can access. Maybe it has something to do with a need for instant gratification. Or they have fear that in exploring the abuser, they may see traits of themselves. Is it possible that differentiating an abuser from others is difficult because the idea that anyone can be an abuser is too frightening to accept? But the victim, if exposed, is undeniable. And because the incident happened to the victim, we have an easy answer: they must have done something to be victimized. The commenter who is the topic of this video, took it a step further by offering an explanation of why I “allowed” myself to be victimized. My family doesn’t have access to my father. I’m sure to many of them, he’s like a mythical creature, only known through the “outlandish tales” of those who have been his victims. The person they knew wasn’t a sordid rapist pedophile. While they didn’t always agree, my uncles, aunts, and cousins partied, conversed, made music, and happily socialized with my father. So rather than accept they were very comfortable consorting with a demon (whether they knew it or not), I, the victim, must have played some role in making him that way. My point is that this type of thinking is divisive and creates spaces for abusers to hide. Something has to change. #unsahamed1 #notalone #itsoktotell #stockholmesyndrome #MentalHealthAwareness #HealingJourney

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