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#traumainformed promotes an understanding of trauma’s impact, fostering empathy, creating safe spaces, and supporting healing. It encourages awareness in education, mental health, social services, and personal interactions for meaningful connections and growth.
5 Subtle Signs of Trauma #traumatok #traumaawareness #traumainformed #traumahealing #traumarecovery #traumaresponse
Toxic Families operate on polar opposites... extreme belonging & exile.  To belong you have to accept the dysfunction and play by the rules of the most toxic person. It costs you your health, individuality, outside relationships & personal growth.  To push back is to be exiled & villainized... you become the example of what not to be. The role model for it means to be "bad, broken or crazy" and you serve as a warning to other members of what it looks like to step out of line & question the family rules.   I know we often talk about the courage it takes to break the cycle but that can feel so empowered when in reality we might have had no choice... we might have reached rock bottom... it might have been life or death for us... we might have our own children to protect or the pain might have built up so much that it became intolerable.  Sometimes the snowball rolls downhill & picks up so much momentum that we are left with no other option but to push back or walk away. That is just as honorable. Because at the end of the day, you are still facing the things that no one else in your family is facing and THAT is courage. It's that shift you make or are thrown into that sets your life on a new trajectory... messy, heartbreaking at times but ultimately honest & liberating in the end♥️ **************************************************  Not therapy. Content based on my own personal views, experiences & study. #narcawareness #narcabuse #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcabuserecovery #traumarecovery #traumainformed #traumabonding #traumabond #traumaresponse #traumaresponse #traumarelease #somaticexperiencing #somatichealing #somaticmovement #ptsdrecovery #ptsdwarrior #ptsdtherapy #healingtrauma #healingtools #empaths #empathsofinstagram #empathsbelike #childhoodtrauma #empathsupport
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Toxic Families operate on polar opposites... extreme belonging & exile. To belong you have to accept the dysfunction and play by the rules of the most toxic person. It costs you your health, individuality, outside relationships & personal growth. To push back is to be exiled & villainized... you become the example of what not to be. The role model for it means to be "bad, broken or crazy" and you serve as a warning to other members of what it looks like to step out of line & question the family rules. I know we often talk about the courage it takes to break the cycle but that can feel so empowered when in reality we might have had no choice... we might have reached rock bottom... it might have been life or death for us... we might have our own children to protect or the pain might have built up so much that it became intolerable. Sometimes the snowball rolls downhill & picks up so much momentum that we are left with no other option but to push back or walk away. That is just as honorable. Because at the end of the day, you are still facing the things that no one else in your family is facing and THAT is courage. It's that shift you make or are thrown into that sets your life on a new trajectory... messy, heartbreaking at times but ultimately honest & liberating in the end♥️ ************************************************** Not therapy. Content based on my own personal views, experiences & study. #narcawareness #narcabuse #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcabuserecovery #traumarecovery #traumainformed #traumabonding #traumabond #traumaresponse #traumaresponse #traumarelease #somaticexperiencing #somatichealing #somaticmovement #ptsdrecovery #ptsdwarrior #ptsdtherapy #healingtrauma #healingtools #empaths #empathsofinstagram #empathsbelike #childhoodtrauma #empathsupport
What NOT to say to your husband  What NOT to say to your wife #polarity #polaritycoach #trauma #masculine #feminine #masculinity #femininty #marriage #marriedlife #marriageproblems #choldhoodtrauma #masculineenergy #feminineenergy #divorceprevention #healing #traumainformed #traumacoach #relationshipgoals #invertedmarriage #marriagerepair #marriedlife  #masculineenergy #feminineenergy #traumainformed #traumahealing #HealingJourney #daringdeeply @Paige Stuart Lea
Women in their “wounded masculine energy” #polarity #polaritycoach #trauma #masculine #feminine #masculinity #femininty #marriage #marriedlife #marriageproblems #divorceprevention #healing #traumainformed #traumacoach #relationshipgoals #invertedmarriage #marriagerepair #marriedlife  #masculineenergy #feminineenergy #traumainformed #traumahealing #HealingJourney #daringdeeply @Paige Stuart Lea
How Many Do You Notice? 👇🏼 Curious about working together? Check out my bio for more info ℹ️  **************************************************  Not therapy. Content based on my own personal views, experiences & study. #narcawareness #narcabuse #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcabuserecovery #traumarecovery #traumainformed #traumabonding #traumabond #traumaresponse #traumaresponse #traumarelease #somaticexperiencing #somatichealing #somaticmovement #ptsdrecovery #ptsdwarrior #ptsdtherapy #healingtrauma #healingtools #empaths #empathsofinstagram #empathsbelike #childhoodtrauma #empathsupport
The worn out excuse I see every single day on my reels is “We did our BEST, Stop Blaming Your Parents” typically followed with some derogatory comment about how our generation thinks it’s trendy to hate parents, be a victim & destroy families. Here’s the reality... * Our generation is one of the first to speak up about how our parents impacted us emotionally, mentally & physically & then advocate for change. * Every single person I have ever worked with, WISHED their parents would have listened to them and changed so they could maintain a relationship that felt safer & healthier. * When you comment “Stop Blaming Parents & Acting Like a Victim” you are LITERALLY making yourself the victim & creating the same toxic behavior most of us grew up with.  * Blaming & Accountability are not the same thing. The reality is toxic parents call it blame to invalidate those who are speaking & belittle their voice.  * If a parent cannot hold space for the pain they have caused, that is THEIR work to do, not the child’s (adult or otherwise) * If you are a grandparent who refuses to treat your adult children with respect, love & care... you are not going to have a relationship with their children. Your adult child knows how you behave & who you are better than anyone & will protect their children from your unhealthy behavior. * No ones truly wants to lose family or go no contact... we want you to heal, take responsibility & do your own work to emotionally mature.  **************************************************  Not Therapy. Not therapy. Content based on my own personal views, experiences & study. #narcawareness #narcabuse #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcabuserecovery #traumarecovery #traumainformed #traumabonding #traumabond #traumaresponse #traumaresponse #traumarelease #somaticexperiencing #somatichealing #somaticmovement #ptsdrecovery #ptsdwarrior #ptsdtherapy #healingtrauma #healingtools #empaths #empathsofinstagram #empathsbelike #childhoodtrauma #empathsupport
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The worn out excuse I see every single day on my reels is “We did our BEST, Stop Blaming Your Parents” typically followed with some derogatory comment about how our generation thinks it’s trendy to hate parents, be a victim & destroy families. Here’s the reality... * Our generation is one of the first to speak up about how our parents impacted us emotionally, mentally & physically & then advocate for change. * Every single person I have ever worked with, WISHED their parents would have listened to them and changed so they could maintain a relationship that felt safer & healthier. * When you comment “Stop Blaming Parents & Acting Like a Victim” you are LITERALLY making yourself the victim & creating the same toxic behavior most of us grew up with. * Blaming & Accountability are not the same thing. The reality is toxic parents call it blame to invalidate those who are speaking & belittle their voice. * If a parent cannot hold space for the pain they have caused, that is THEIR work to do, not the child’s (adult or otherwise) * If you are a grandparent who refuses to treat your adult children with respect, love & care... you are not going to have a relationship with their children. Your adult child knows how you behave & who you are better than anyone & will protect their children from your unhealthy behavior. * No ones truly wants to lose family or go no contact... we want you to heal, take responsibility & do your own work to emotionally mature. ************************************************** Not Therapy. Not therapy. Content based on my own personal views, experiences & study. #narcawareness #narcabuse #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcabuserecovery #traumarecovery #traumainformed #traumabonding #traumabond #traumaresponse #traumaresponse #traumarelease #somaticexperiencing #somatichealing #somaticmovement #ptsdrecovery #ptsdwarrior #ptsdtherapy #healingtrauma #healingtools #empaths #empathsofinstagram #empathsbelike #childhoodtrauma #empathsupport
Healing happens when you learn to trust your own boundaries & needs. Toxic people will constantly push those boundaries & ask you to deny them in yourself. One of the things they will use against you is the feeling of guilt. They will build a narrative against you that you are "'guilty" or "mean" for not giving them their way or putting them first. Your work in healing is learning to sit with the fact that other people will be uncomfortable or upset when you put yourself first.  Build safety. The more you can create safety and stack the deck to feel safe, the easier it will be to allow people their own feelings without feeling like you are in danger or a bad person. Not therapy. Content based on my own personal views, experiences & study #narcawareness #narcabuse #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcabuserecovery #traumarecovery #traumainformed #traumabonding #traumabond #traumaresponse #traumaresponse #traumarelease #somaticexperiencing #somatichealing #somaticmovement #ptsdrecovery #ptsdwarrior #ptsdtherapy #healingtrauma #healingtools #empaths #empathsofinstagram #empathsbelike #childhoodtrauma #empathsupport
The Body Keeps the Score is a pretty profound book about trauma and how it stays in the body long after the event. There’s lots of detailed scientific information that explains how the body holds onto events beyond a persons control and can give you a lot of insight into what is happening within the body during and even years after a traumatic event.  This video was filmed JANUARY 6, 2024. For clarification, one year ago! Please do the math #traumatok #traumahealing #traumainformed #thebodykeepsscore #adayinmylife #dorsolateralprefrontalcortex #onthisday
STOP waiting for your husband to CHANGE #polarity #polaritycoach #trauma #masculine #feminine #masculinity #femininty #marriage #marriedlife #marriageproblems #divorceprevention #healing #traumainformed #traumacoach #relationshipgoals #invertedmarriage #marriagerepair #marriedlife  #masculineenergy #feminineenergy #traumainformed #traumahealing #HealingJourney #daringdeeply #codependency @Paige Stuart Lea
Rules for Healing as the Family Scapegoat... 1.  Stop trying to explain or prove yourself. You are only contributing to feeling more misunderstood when people are committed to not hearing you. 2. You are not everything (or sometimes anything) you've been told you are. If a label, title or criticism feels like it hurts the core of who you are, really take the time to see if it's true to who you are or is someone's projection onto you. 3. Healing sometimes means solitude or changing who you let around. If someone triggers your nervous system & stops you from healing because it puts you in crisis, take a break from the situation and heal, then come back and reassess. 4. Just because your family didn't approve of, accept or validate who you are, doesn't mean others won't get you & love you for who you genuinely are.  5. Practice making peace with never getting the validation, answer or apology you always wanted. It's hard but the truth is, your healing is not dependent on it, you are capable of healing without it. Need more support from one Scapegoat to another? Check out the info for private sessions in my bio ☝️ **************************************************  Not therapy. Content based on my own personal views, experiences & study. #narcawareness #narcabuse #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcabuserecovery #traumarecovery #traumainformed #traumabonding #traumabond #traumaresponse #traumaresponse #traumarelease #somaticexperiencing #somatichealing #somaticmovement #ptsdrecovery #ptsdwarrior #ptsdtherapy #healingtrauma #healingtools #empaths #empathsofinstagram #empathsbelike #childhoodtrauma #empathsupport
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Rules for Healing as the Family Scapegoat... 1. Stop trying to explain or prove yourself. You are only contributing to feeling more misunderstood when people are committed to not hearing you. 2. You are not everything (or sometimes anything) you've been told you are. If a label, title or criticism feels like it hurts the core of who you are, really take the time to see if it's true to who you are or is someone's projection onto you. 3. Healing sometimes means solitude or changing who you let around. If someone triggers your nervous system & stops you from healing because it puts you in crisis, take a break from the situation and heal, then come back and reassess. 4. Just because your family didn't approve of, accept or validate who you are, doesn't mean others won't get you & love you for who you genuinely are. 5. Practice making peace with never getting the validation, answer or apology you always wanted. It's hard but the truth is, your healing is not dependent on it, you are capable of healing without it. Need more support from one Scapegoat to another? Check out the info for private sessions in my bio ☝️ ************************************************** Not therapy. Content based on my own personal views, experiences & study. #narcawareness #narcabuse #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcabuserecovery #traumarecovery #traumainformed #traumabonding #traumabond #traumaresponse #traumaresponse #traumarelease #somaticexperiencing #somatichealing #somaticmovement #ptsdrecovery #ptsdwarrior #ptsdtherapy #healingtrauma #healingtools #empaths #empathsofinstagram #empathsbelike #childhoodtrauma #empathsupport
#daystar #joycemeyer #breakingnews #scandal #jonilamb #jonathanlamb #dougweiss #suzylamb #leakedaudio #justice #marcuslamb #TraumaInformed #shawnbolz #christiantiktok #christiannews
Did you grow up with this type of rage? Narcissistic Rage can be terrifying and at the very least leave you walking on eggshells & feeling unsafe in the event you upset them or triggered them. Our responses as a child would have been... 🥷 FIGHT-  You pushed back or stood up for yourself. Yes, you probably knew it could get worse but this would have happened if you felt like you had no other option and/or you were protecting someone else (ie. siblings or other parent) 🏃FLIGHT-You knew that the best option was to sneak away, go to your room or leave the house because you felt safer being alone. 🥶FREEZE- You knew that there was nothing to do but take it and hope it would end soon. You were expected to stay put until they unleashed everything they needed. Then you were expected to have no emotions or response to their behavior other than accepting you deserved it. If you grew up having to go into one of these survival modes, you may still be doing it now on some level... even if you have different options as an adult because you have more power.  ▶️ Somatic Practice to Try... 1. Tune into that feeling you had as a child in the face of the anger/rage. What do you notice emotionally or feel in your body. Give it a name & be curious.  2. Sit with that feeling, what do you instinctively want to do ? (ie. cry, run, make fists, yell etc) 3. What happens if you allow yourself to very slowly do the thing you are sensing your body wants to do? Does anything change? Does it need something new? **************************************************  Not therapy. Content based on my own personal views, experiences & study. #narcawareness #narcabuse #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcabuserecovery #traumarecovery #traumainformed #traumabonding #traumabond #traumaresponse #traumaresponse #traumarelease #somaticexperiencing #somatichealing #somaticmovement #ptsdrecovery #ptsdwarrior #ptsdtherapy #healingtrauma #healingtools #empaths #empathsofinstagram #empathsbelike #childhoodtrauma #empathsupport
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Did you grow up with this type of rage? Narcissistic Rage can be terrifying and at the very least leave you walking on eggshells & feeling unsafe in the event you upset them or triggered them. Our responses as a child would have been... 🥷 FIGHT- You pushed back or stood up for yourself. Yes, you probably knew it could get worse but this would have happened if you felt like you had no other option and/or you were protecting someone else (ie. siblings or other parent) 🏃FLIGHT-You knew that the best option was to sneak away, go to your room or leave the house because you felt safer being alone. 🥶FREEZE- You knew that there was nothing to do but take it and hope it would end soon. You were expected to stay put until they unleashed everything they needed. Then you were expected to have no emotions or response to their behavior other than accepting you deserved it. If you grew up having to go into one of these survival modes, you may still be doing it now on some level... even if you have different options as an adult because you have more power. ▶️ Somatic Practice to Try... 1. Tune into that feeling you had as a child in the face of the anger/rage. What do you notice emotionally or feel in your body. Give it a name & be curious. 2. Sit with that feeling, what do you instinctively want to do ? (ie. cry, run, make fists, yell etc) 3. What happens if you allow yourself to very slowly do the thing you are sensing your body wants to do? Does anything change? Does it need something new? ************************************************** Not therapy. Content based on my own personal views, experiences & study. #narcawareness #narcabuse #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcabuserecovery #traumarecovery #traumainformed #traumabonding #traumabond #traumaresponse #traumaresponse #traumarelease #somaticexperiencing #somatichealing #somaticmovement #ptsdrecovery #ptsdwarrior #ptsdtherapy #healingtrauma #healingtools #empaths #empathsofinstagram #empathsbelike #childhoodtrauma #empathsupport
Signs Your Inner Child might still be struggling with some Childhood Trauma... * You don't take care of yourself first or ask for what you need because you don't want to be a burden * It's hard for you to figure out what boundaries are & if you set one you feel guilty or "bad" * Your Inner Voice is constantly telling you to try harder or be more because what you do & who you are is never enough * It's easier to keep people happy than deal with the feelings of their disappointment, anger or silence * You hide your anger under busy-ness, jokes & sadness * You struggle to get things done that are actually important to you & self sabotage or put if off Question to ask yourself if you notice any of these.... "What version of yourself do you long to be?" and "If you are honest with yourself, when or why did you to lose permission to be that?"   **************************************************  Not therapy. Content based on my own personal views, experiences & study. #narcawareness #narcabuse #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcabuserecovery #traumarecovery #traumainformed #traumabonding #traumabond #traumaresponse #traumaresponse #traumarelease #somaticexperiencing #somatichealing #somaticmovement #ptsdrecovery #ptsdwarrior #ptsdtherapy #healingtrauma #healingtools #empaths #empathsofinstagram #empathsbelike #childhoodtrauma #empathsupport
A wife in her wounded masculine energy. #polarity #polaritycoach #trauma #masculine #feminine #masculinity #femininty #marriage #marriedlife #marriageproblems #divorceprevention #healing #traumainformed #traumacoach #relationshipgoals #invertedmarriage #marriagerepair #marriedlife  #masculineenergy #feminineenergy #traumainformed #traumahealing #HealingJourney #daringdeeply @Paige Stuart Lea
🚨Were you a SCAPEGOAT?🐐 The thing with being stuck in freeze is that most of us are in some form of functional freeze so we overlook it and wonder why we’re emotionally numb or overwhelmed, exhausted, have brain fog or no energy… the list goes on. But if you grew up as a scapegoat in a narcissistic family, you are probably an Olympic level athlete at forcing yourself to freeze and override your emotions because that’s what you had to do to survive. You had to emotionally monitor and placate parents, pretend you were ok when you weren’t, act like the insults and criticism didn’t hurt & shut down your own feelings to protect the narcissistic parent’s ego. Did you ever really come out of it? Most of us healing childhood trauma still have some part of us that can be stuck in freeze. If you’re unraveling it or exploring the possibility a really good question to explore is… What do I not have permission to feel? Why? Who told me that or made me feel this way? What am I afraid would happen if I felt it? Not Therapy. Content based on my own personal views, experiences & study. #narcawareness #narcabuse #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcabuserecovery #traumarecovery #traumainformed #traumabonding #traumabond #traumaresponse #traumaresponse #traumarelease #somaticexperiencing #somatichealing #somaticmovement #ptsdrecovery #ptsdwarrior #ptsdtherapy #healingtrauma #healingtools #empaths #empathsofinstagram #empathsbelike #childhoodtrauma #empathsupport #EOYInspo24
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🚨Were you a SCAPEGOAT?🐐 The thing with being stuck in freeze is that most of us are in some form of functional freeze so we overlook it and wonder why we’re emotionally numb or overwhelmed, exhausted, have brain fog or no energy… the list goes on. But if you grew up as a scapegoat in a narcissistic family, you are probably an Olympic level athlete at forcing yourself to freeze and override your emotions because that’s what you had to do to survive. You had to emotionally monitor and placate parents, pretend you were ok when you weren’t, act like the insults and criticism didn’t hurt & shut down your own feelings to protect the narcissistic parent’s ego. Did you ever really come out of it? Most of us healing childhood trauma still have some part of us that can be stuck in freeze. If you’re unraveling it or exploring the possibility a really good question to explore is… What do I not have permission to feel? Why? Who told me that or made me feel this way? What am I afraid would happen if I felt it? Not Therapy. Content based on my own personal views, experiences & study. #narcawareness #narcabuse #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcabuserecovery #traumarecovery #traumainformed #traumabonding #traumabond #traumaresponse #traumaresponse #traumarelease #somaticexperiencing #somatichealing #somaticmovement #ptsdrecovery #ptsdwarrior #ptsdtherapy #healingtrauma #healingtools #empaths #empathsofinstagram #empathsbelike #childhoodtrauma #empathsupport #EOYInspo24
💡 Research shows fascia acts as a sensory organ, influencing everything from proprioception to nervous system regulation. My study proved that releasing fascia tension in the legs could reduce headaches – showing just how connected this system really is.  ✨ Learn how the NeuroFascial Flow Method helps providers transform outcomes at linktr.ee/drsatyawellness  #n#neurofascialflowf#fasciat#traumainformedm#manualtherapyh#holistichealthh#holistichealingi#integrativemedicinec#chiropracticp#physiotherapyo#osteopatia
Stop chasing 50/50 in your marriage. #polarity #polaritycoach #trauma #masculine #feminine #masculinity #femininty #marriage #marriedlife #marriageproblems #choldhoodtrauma #masculineenergy #feminineenergy #divorceprevention #healing #traumainformed #traumacoach #relationshipgoals #invertedmarriage #marriagerepair #marriedlife  #masculineenergy #feminineenergy #traumainformed #traumahealing #HealingJourney #daringdeeply @Paige Stuart Lea
Truth hurts🤷‍♀️ #tiktoktherapist #therapytok #therapytiktok #privatepracticetherapist #microinfluencer #traumainformed
Will accept all thoughts and feedback below please!! I have no idea if this could work and I have lots of concerns about making sure it represents EVERYONE appropriately! I figured I’ll at least throw the idea out there and see where it lands…🤷🏻‍♀️🤞🏻 #project #projectidea #MentalHealth #mentalhealthdiagnosis #mentalhealthdiagnoses #trauma #traumainformed #traumainformedcare #healing #HealingJourney #dsm #dsm5 #MentalHealthAwareness #subjective #therapist #therapytok #therapistoftiktok
Your Triggers Are Trying To Teach You Something!  #triggers #healing #growth #selfrespect #selflove #SelfCare #growthmindset #healing #recovery #cptsdhealing #cptsd #cptsdrecovery #cptsdhealing #trauma #traumatok #traumahealing #traumarecovery #traumainformed
These distinctions aren’t excuses—they’re clarifications. Abuse, in any form, is always wrong, and the responsibility lies solely with the perpetrator. No “divine calling” or cultural norm justifies harm. Victims are never at fault.  #traumainformed #faithtransition #religiousaccountability #survivoradvocacy #consentmatters #stopvictimblaming #HealingJourney #mentalhealthmatters #therapistlife

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