To all the single women out there, and maybe to myself as much as anyone elseā¦ Iām sitting here, writing this because I need to remind myself of something thatās so easy to forget in the chaos of life: take care of you! Over the past week and a half, I've had two emergency vet visits. And on top of that, lifeās usual stressorsāfinances, work, the endless to-do list have all piled up at once. Itās been overwhelming, and honestly, some days it feels like itās all too much. But through it all, Iāve realized something: Iāve always been the one to take care of me. Donāt get me wrong, people do kind things for me ALl THE TIME! When I say Iām always taking care of myself (and others emotions), I mean always. Even in relationships, Iāve been the one to take care of my own mental health, my physical health, the homes, the animals. Iāve done it all, often with no one to turn to for help. And let me tell youāitās not easy. But if thereās one thing Iāve learned, itās this: Be gentle on yourself. Last night, I fell asleep on the couch with two of my dogs, one of whom is hooked up to a breathing machine. Iām not sharing this to get sympathy. I just needed to share that sometimesājust sometimesāit would be nice for someone to do something for me. Weāre all taught to be strong, to be self-sufficient, to keep pushing. But letās be real: thereās no shame in asking for help when you need it. If youāre the one whoās always there for everyone elseāwhether itās being the main breadwinner, cooking meals, raising children, caring for pets, keeping the house runningāplease, for the love of Jesus, donāt forget to love yourself! Because hereās the truth: if you donāt take care of YOU, you wonāt be able to take care of anyone else. And thatās the hardest thing to remember sometimes. But itās true. So to the women who feel like theyāre holding the weight of the world on their shouldersā¦ youāre not alone. And itās okay to need a break, to ask for help, to say "Iām tired." Your heart matters. Your body matters. YOU matter. Letās take a moment today to be a little kinder to ourselves.š«¶
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