If you grew up in a home where peace depended on you - your words, your tone, your appearance, your compliance - you may have learned that your worth is tied to how OTHERS perceive you. You became skilled at: reading the room, chameleon-ing yourself, and staying “agreeable”, just to keep everyone ELSE at ease. This survival strategy might have kept you safe back then, but now, It's just exhausting 😭 Carrying the weight of everyone else's opinions while your true self gets buried? That's not peace - it's self-abandonment 💔 Unlearning this pattern isn't easy, but it is freedom 🙌🏼 Freedom to: 👉🏼 Say 'no' without guilt 👉🏼 Let people think whatever they want 👉🏼 Stop shrinking or silencing yourself for someone else's comfort It's not selfish. It's healing.❤️🩹 Every time you honor yourself over the fear of disappointing someone, you're rewriting the nervous system story that tells you everyone else’s comfort matters above your own. Your voice matters. Your needs matter. Now it’s time for you to truly embody this power 🔥 Repeat after me, “Disapproval is ok with me” 👑 Write it down, repeat it often and post it in the comments to we can affirm it together and celebrate you on your differentiation journey! 🎊 . . . .
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