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Like so many married couples, we got into the routine of watching a TV show or movie together every night after we put our daughter to bed. We had so little energy left in the tank every night that sitting next to each other enjoying some entertainment felt like the natural thing to do. The problem with this routine wasn’t obvious at first but over time we felt distant and less connected. Not only were we getting robbed of high quality time together, we also would wake up feeling less rested because of the decision to watch a screen before bed and stay up way too late trying to cram in “just one more episode”. It was a viscous cycle and we hit a point about a year and a half ago when we decided to make a change. Head to our YouTube channel to watch the full epide. Our channel is called The Cases Casa. 🫶🏻 #marriagetips #marriageadvice #beating50percent #healthymarriage #marriagematters #morningroutine #christianmarriage

Like so many married couples, we got into the routine of watching a TV show or movie together every night after we put our daughter to bed. We had so little energy left in the tank every night that sitting next to each other enjoying some entertainment felt like the natural thing to do. The problem with this routine wasn’t obvious at first but over time we felt distant and less connected. Not only were we getting robbed of high quality time together, we also would wake up feeling less rested because of the decision to watch a screen before bed and stay up way too late trying to cram in “just one more episode”. It was a viscous cycle and we hit a point about a year and a half ago when we decided to make a change. Head to our YouTube channel to watch the full epide. Our channel is called The Cases Casa. 🫶🏻 #marriagetips #marriageadvice #beating50percent #healthymarriage #marriagematters #morningroutine #christianmarriage

Ok… jokes aside… there is some truth here. Marriage is messy, and we show up with different families of origins, trauma, fighting and communication styles, and Primal Questions. Typically, these things are opposite, making navigating conflict confusing and frustrating. Then you throw hurt into the mix… (yes, my friend, you WILL hurt each other at some point), and now we’re in an ongoing gridlock of being in a relationship with each other’s behavior. I honestly believed the way I did things was more efficient. I thought I knew everything. Guess what? He thought the same about himself. How can two people be right? (Spoiler alert: they can, but that realization comes with healing.) I can tell you how I became the front-runner in this competition. He betrayed me. Yep. He made a big mistake and betrayed my trust. That was it. All bets were off, and I had the upper hand. I was perfect. He was a jerk. And he didn’t deserve me. My heart was no longer safe with him. And he couldn’t do anything right. (Oddly enough, that makes the pain feel a little better.) I’m exaggerating a bit, but if I were honest with myself, I truly believed this sometimes. The truth is. I’m just as flawed as he is. I’m only 2-3 decisions away from betraying his trust. It wasn’t until I humbled myself, looked in the mirror, and took responsibility for my role that I could see my husband’s beautiful character and watch him shine. I’m simplifying a complicated healing process that required both of us to work hard. But my point is: Don’t try to change your spouse. Instead, become wildly curious about them. Be open to their influence on you. ❤️ #marriagegoals #reframeyourthoughts #familyfirst #marriagelife #dateyourhusband #dateyourwife #dateyourmate #healthymarriage #happymarriage #marriageforlife #healthymarriage #beating50percent #marriageadvice #happymarriage #marriedcouple #marriedlife #intentionalmarriage #dateyourspouse #christianmarriage #livingreframed #marriagetips #marriageadvice #certifiedprimalquestioncoach #adviceforcouples #marriagecoach

Ok… jokes aside… there is some truth here. Marriage is messy, and we show up with different families of origins, trauma, fighting and communication styles, and Primal Questions. Typically, these things are opposite, making navigating conflict confusing and frustrating. Then you throw hurt into the mix… (yes, my friend, you WILL hurt each other at some point), and now we’re in an ongoing gridlock of being in a relationship with each other’s behavior. I honestly believed the way I did things was more efficient. I thought I knew everything. Guess what? He thought the same about himself. How can two people be right? (Spoiler alert: they can, but that realization comes with healing.) I can tell you how I became the front-runner in this competition. He betrayed me. Yep. He made a big mistake and betrayed my trust. That was it. All bets were off, and I had the upper hand. I was perfect. He was a jerk. And he didn’t deserve me. My heart was no longer safe with him. And he couldn’t do anything right. (Oddly enough, that makes the pain feel a little better.) I’m exaggerating a bit, but if I were honest with myself, I truly believed this sometimes. The truth is. I’m just as flawed as he is. I’m only 2-3 decisions away from betraying his trust. It wasn’t until I humbled myself, looked in the mirror, and took responsibility for my role that I could see my husband’s beautiful character and watch him shine. I’m simplifying a complicated healing process that required both of us to work hard. But my point is: Don’t try to change your spouse. Instead, become wildly curious about them. Be open to their influence on you. ❤️ #marriagegoals #reframeyourthoughts #familyfirst #marriagelife #dateyourhusband #dateyourwife #dateyourmate #healthymarriage #happymarriage #marriageforlife #healthymarriage #beating50percent #marriageadvice #happymarriage #marriedcouple #marriedlife #intentionalmarriage #dateyourspouse #christianmarriage #livingreframed #marriagetips #marriageadvice #certifiedprimalquestioncoach #adviceforcouples #marriagecoach

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